Divorce Coaching Podcast

Divorce, Separation, Relationship Break-Up or any other label that suits your situation, can happen to literally anyone!

It can affect any family, any individual, at any time in life, no matter where you live, what you do for a living, what your religious beliefs are or are not. 

Divorce and separation does not discriminate against your age, ethnicity, societal life status, sexual orientation or indeed against anything!

In this episode (9) of the Divorce Coaching Podcast, Fay & I talk to my new Insta & Clubhouse BFF, Imran Azam, aka "Divorce Muslim Dad" podcaster.

If you have never come across Imran and his podcast before, I implore you to go listen to it right now. 

Not only has he got one of the coolest podcasting voicers I've ever heard (and I listen to a lot of them!), he has so much wisdom, such insightful experiences that are so raw and engagingly honest. 

Imran talks about his self reflection, first dates way back when, what he felt was a "low-key form of denial" he was going through and how he felt the line of "we're done" was blurred for him. 

We ask questions about how his experience has developed over the years, relationship with his ex, kids, and more. Impacts on cultural and community situations within the Asian community. Impacts on his faith, if any, and soooo much more. 

You can find his podcast on all major channels, simply search "Divorce Muslim Dad". Or follow Imran on Instagram @moiazam

As always, we love to hear your thoughts, comments, questions and if you have a topic you want discussed on the DCP or maybe you want to share your story / experiences, personal or professional, please get in touch. 

Thanks for watching 

Fay & Tomv

In this episode (#12) Fay & I delve into the world of "Dating After Divorce" 😱

Do you get back out there?
If so, when?
How long do you wait?
How do you go about it?
Digital Dating - Have you ever had to date via an App?! What's swiping right/left?
Who do you date?
Do you have new criteria in what a "good" partner looks like?
And for some people, they even may be asking why?? Why would I want to!

Yep we talking about everything from catfishing (and kitten-fishing) to the ups and downs of dating post divorce / separation.

It was supposed to be me asking Fay all about her dating experience post both divorces, but as always she gives as good as she gets and digs deep on my personal experience of meeting someone whilst I was still married!.

We hope you enjoy, as always please leave us a like 👍, comment 💻 & share 🤝

Thanks for listening 

Fay & Tom
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"You are what you eat" Or are you?
Or more importantly for our audience, does what you eat affect your divorce? How you'll act?
How you'll feel?

We thought we'd ask a Pro so we talked to Saffron Rogerson, a Nutritional Therapist from www.thislifenutrition.co.uk

We've likely all thought an ex was nuts... but I'd never thought that eating them (nuts not my ex!) could impact so much both physically, mentally & emotionally.

Have a watch and tell us your thoughts... comments below 👇

We're also now on Spotify for those that just want to listen, simply search Divorce Coaching Podcast, and Apple is being created as I type :)

Thanks for watching

Fay & Tom
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https://mrdivorcecoach.co.uk/
https://feelpositivecoaching.com/

Divorce Coach? or Divorce Coaching?...

Questions:
* What is it? 
* What do they do?
* How does it work?
* How can it help me?
* What sort of things can they help with?
* Who should I work with?
* When should I work with one?

Or as a recent enquiry eloquently put it... "WTF is a Divorce Coach?" 🤔

Fay & I thought it might be useful to recap on our very first episode (Ep1 Introductions), now that we're a little more familiar (and not bricking it being on video lol). 

We also talk about the different types of Divorce Coach that are out there, how each differ from each other and have different styles and approaches. 

So if you ever wondered what a Divorce Coach is? How they work? What they do and work with you on?.. Listen to this 👍

Thanks for listening

Divorce, Separation, Relationship Break-Up or any other label that suits your situation, can happen to literally anyone!

It can affect any family, any individual, at any time in life, no matter where you live, what you do for a living, what your religious beliefs are or are not. 

Divorce and separation does not discriminate against your age, ethnicity, societal life status, sexual orientation or indeed against anything!

In this episode (9) of the Divorce Coaching Podcast, Fay & I talk to my new Insta & Clubhouse BFF, Imran Azam, aka "Divorce Muslim Dad" podcaster.

If you have never come across Imran and his podcast before, I implore you to go listen to it right now. 

Not only has he got one of the coolest podcasting voicers I've ever heard (and I listen to a lot of them!), he has so much wisdom, such insightful experiences that are so raw and engagingly honest. 

Imran talks about his self reflection, first dates way back when, what he felt was a "low-key form of denial" he was going through and how he felt the line of "we're done" was blurred for him. 

We ask questions about how his experience has developed over the years, relationship with his ex, kids, and more. Impacts on cultural and community situations within the Asian community. Impacts on his faith, if any, and soooo much more. 

You can find his podcast on all major channels, simply search "Divorce Muslim Dad". Or follow Imran on Instagram @moiazam

As always, we love to hear your thoughts, comments, questions and if you have a topic you want discussed on the DCP or maybe you want to share your story / experiences, personal or professional, please get in touch. 

Thanks for watching 

Fay & Tomv

I hate thinking about my finances at the best of times, yet alone when I was going through my divorce!

In this episode (Ep8) of the Divorce Coaching Podcast Fay & I talk to Lottie Kent, aka @DivorceFinancialPlanner

We ask loads of factual, honesty and above all very useful questions that gets you the viewers some free insights and fab tips from an expert in divorce financial planning.

Are you in control of your finances pre, pending or post divorce?
Did your ex manage the money?
If so.. WTF & HTF (that's "Where" & "How" TF) do you start to get your head around it all? 
Are they/you entitle to a pension share?
Maintenance
And a lot lot more.

As Lottie says, "what you are entitle to, and what you actually need are two very different things. Priority number 1, is establishing what you NEED".

You can find Lottie on Instagram @DivorceFinancialPlanner or via her website: https://www.truefinancialdesign.co.uk/

Or contact either myself or Fay and we will happily make the introduction.

If you have a question? topic or comment, you would like us to address, please get in touch via the following:
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Or book a call directly via: https://calendly.com/mrdivorcecoach 

Lastly, if you can give the clip a little Like 👍 just to help boost the algorithm so others can find this useful info.

Thanks all

Fay & Tom

Welcome to Ep7 of the DCP, this weeks topic is about Co-Parenting in Lockdown, but also in general. 

Fay & I recorded this in the middle of Feb 2021 (literally days before changes to new UK restrictions were put out by BoJo! 

Eitherway, still an interesting topic regardless of lockdowns or not. 

As always, Fay & I talk about our own experiences, ups & downs, learning and adapting. None of us are perfect, we're al human, we even talk bring up real life situations such as haircuts!! Yep sounds silly and something so mundane but trust me it's those little moments that can make the biggest frictions and potentially contentious outcomes... But is doesn't have to 🤔

You may have noticed (for our regulars) a pretty new logo, yep I've officially formed my new branding of "Mr Divorce Coach" so look out for new contact info and an update to all social media feeds at the end of the video to follow and get in touch. 

We love to hear your thoughts, comments, questions and also ideas for topics? guests you'd like to hear from or get advice from? And more. So please comment below 👇 (it helps the algorithm apparently!) and get in touch with either Fay or I directly. 

Thanks everyone, enjoy and take care

Fay & Tom

Recorded and posted on YT in Jan 2021 for New Year New You....

Episode 4 brings you a very special guest, a fantastic and hugely knowledgeable Family Law professional here in the UK, Pui Uro, Director of Hunter & Uro Solicitors, someone I partner with closely to support her clients emotional wellbeing and mindset.

Given the time of year (New Years Eve), we thought that some practical insights from the Family Law world might be very useful for all our viewers, especially as so called "Divorce Day" is upon us (the first working day of the year when many think there is a spike in divorce / separation applications).

As ever, both Fay & I bring you insights, tips and of course our personal experiences of our own. As does Pui, a family lawyer who herself has also been through this challenging life situation , so has walked the same paths we all have / are.

This episode also focus on new starts, and a new you, or as I prefer to look at it... an improved you, your best version of you, a happier and true you.

Enjoy, if you have any questions, thoughts, comments or even better topics you wish for Fay & I to discuss, please get in touch with us or post here in the comments. Our contact info will pop up at the end of the video as usual.

If you would like to make contact with Pui Uro and her team at Hunter & Uro, please reach out to her/them directly on the following contact info:
Email: [email protected]
Call: +44(0) 207 177 9777 / +44(0) 1234 889 777
Web: https://hunteranduro.co.uk/external-r... 

Recorded and posted on YT in Jan 2021 for New Year New You....

Episode 4 brings you a very special guest, a fantastic and hugely knowledgeable Family Law professional here in the UK, Pui Uro, Director of Hunter & Uro Solicitors, someone I partner with closely to support her clients emotional wellbeing and mindset.

Given the time of year (New Years Eve), we thought that some practical insights from the Family Law world might be very useful for all our viewers, especially as so called "Divorce Day" is upon us (the first working day of the year when many think there is a spike in divorce / separation applications).

As ever, both Fay & I bring you insights, tips and of course our personal experiences of our own. As does Pui, a family lawyer who herself has also been through this challenging life situation , so has walked the same paths we all have / are.

This episode also focus on new starts, and a new you, or as I prefer to look at it... an improved you, your best version of you, a happier and true you.

Enjoy, if you have any questions, thoughts, comments or even better topics you wish for Fay & I to discuss, please get in touch with us or post here in the comments. Our contact info will pop up at the end of the video as usual.

If you would like to make contact with Pui Uro and her team at Hunter & Uro, please reach out to her/them directly on the following contact info:
Email: [email protected]
Call: +44(0) 207 177 9777 / +44(0) 1234 889 777
Web: https://hunteranduro.co.uk/external-r... 

Welcome back (or welcome to DCP if this is your first time here), this week's topic is a potentially controversial, difficult and contentious one!...

#Infidelity & #Affairs 😨

Fay & I are discussing all things infidelity & affairs related, as always from both of our personal experiences but also professional input. 

Fay won't mind me saying (its on the clip anyway lol) that she has been on the receiving end of being cheated on, not once but twice in both her marriages! I on the other hand have been the cheater  😬 and had an affair towards the end of marriage. I am with that person now and very happy of course, but we do dive into some of the why's? when's? "cause & effect" scenarios that led to these situations. 

I was quite apprehensive about this one to be 100% honest... What if everyone now hates me, I'm going to get a lot of sh*t from people for being such a horrible person, just another cheating ar**hole man right!? 

Wrong, and this is my favourite saying of late... "Not ALL leavers are bastards"! Some are yes, but not all. 

🤞 you all enjoy this one, it was great fun making it and the honesty just flowed from both of us. 

As always, we love to hear your thoughts, comments, questions or indeed topics/sub-topics you'd like to suggest. 

Tom & Fay