Dads Know Best

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Travel Stories

01:00 Fear of Fire Alarms

03:12 Dealing with Chirping Smoke Alarms

04:30 The Annoyance of Bright Lights

05:32 Getting Older and Disliking New Things

06:27 Enjoying Movies with Kids

07:41 The Impact of Dune

09:08 Memorable Movie Experiences

10:45 Childhood Memories of Batman

11:15 The Decline of Batman Movies

12:16 The Excitement of Watching Movies with Kids

13:24 Dune and Star Wars Influences

14:19 Differences Between Dune and Star Wars

15:01 Childhood Memories of Star Wars

16:26 Kids' Reactions to Movies

18:53 Straight-to-Video Movies

19:30 Urban Legends and Hidden Messages in Movies

19:42 The Impact of Social Media

21:12 The Virality of Controversial Posts

22:39 The Misinterpretation of Tweets

23:11 The Power of Guaranteed Virality

24:13 Dealing with Online Attacks

25:37 The Difference in Online Engagement

26:14 The Algorithm and Building an Audience

27:15 The Consequences of Online Actions

28:14 The Narrative of Cheating

29:12 The Perception of Masculinity

30:03 Expressing Affection and Friendship

31:02 The Absurdity of Online Reactions

32:33 Projection of Issues onto Others

33:27 The Pathetic Nature of Online Outrage

34:07 Comparing Appearances and Age

35:27 The Perception of Handsomeness

36:13 The Comedy of Seth Rogen

37:39 The Importance of Intentional Time

40:19 The Importance of Little Moments

41:03 Creating Lasting Memories

42:00 The Power of Day-to-Day Actions

42:29 The Impact of Small Gestures

43:08 The Significance of Quality Time

43:58 Building Strong Relationships

44:21 Creating Special Moments

45:07 The Importance of Being Present

45:38 The Power of Affirmation

46:11 Creating Unique Connections

46:54 The Value of Secret Handshakes

47:31 Fostering a Sense of Belonging

48:19 The Desire for Lifelong Relationships

48:40 The Importance of Being Present

49:49 The Impact of Small Actions

50:55 Behaving in a Way You Find Good to Be Around

51:43 Filtering Friends for Positive Influence

52:12 The Value of Family Support

53:15 Creating a Strong Family Bond

54:19 The Importance of Extended Family

55:18 The Power of Family Connection

56:06 Enjoying Each Other's Company

57:47 The Importance of Intergenerational Relationships

58:36 The Value of Family Support

59:28 The Importance of Family Unity

01:00:22 The Power of Family Bonds

01:01:44 The Importance of Family Support

01:02:30 Leveraging Family Strengths

01:03:31 The Nuclear Family Psyop

01:04:00 The Benefits of Routine and Familiarity

01:04:26 The Joy of Mediterranean Cuisine

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The hosts discuss various topics including their vacation in Maui, the fires in Maui and conspiracy theories, the lack of trust in news and information, the inefficiency of bureaucracy, the difficulty of living in the world, frustration with government agencies, and the importance of teaching business skills to children. They also express their lack of optimism for the future and the need for a different mindset in different states. The conversation highlights the barriers to entry in traditional businesses and the advantages of online businesses. In this part of the conversation, the hosts discuss various topics related to online business, the influence of social media, the changing perception of New York, the challenges of doing business in New York City, the image of different states, the impact of media and pornography, the importance of having fun in relationships, the balance between health and enjoyment, the challenges of getting enough sleep, the messiness of family life, the importance of being flexible as a parent, the importance of affection in relationships, the impact of music on children, the influence of media and entertainment, and the distinction between music and other media. They also emphasize the importance of monitoring music content for children. The conversation explores the impact of music and media on children, emphasizing the need for parental guidance and screening. The hosts share personal experiences and discuss the power of music to influence behavior and shape identity. They highlight the importance of curating music for children and setting a positive example. The conversation also touches on the role of media in personal transformation and the challenges of navigating societal influences. Overall, the discussion underscores the need for awareness and intentionality in exposing children to media.

Takeaways

• Online business allows for faster and more cost-effective proof of concept compared to brick and mortar businesses.
• The perception of New York and its residents has changed over time, with a shift in cultural stereotypes.
• The influence of media and pornography can have a negative impact on relationships and personal well-being.
• It is important to find a balance between health and enjoyment, and to be flexible and adaptable as a parent.
• Monitoring the content of music and other media is crucial to ensure positive influences on children. Parents should be mindful of the lyrics and messages in the music their children listen to, as it can have a significant impact on their emotions and worldview.
• Screening media, including music, movies, and TV shows, is crucial to protect children from harmful content and ensure they are exposed to positive influences.
• Music has a powerful influence on behavior, mood, and thoughts. It can be both beneficial and detrimental, depending on the content and message.
• Parents should prioritize their battles, focusing on areas like internet use, TV shows, and movies, which have a more significant impact on children's development.
• Music has the ability to shape identity and perception. Parents should curate music that aligns with their values and promotes positive messages.
• Personal transformation is possible through conscious choices, such as changing media consumption habits and setting a positive example for children.

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Summary

The hosts discuss the secret to looking young and the impact of alcohol and stress on aging. They also talk about the funniest presidents and TV shows, as well as the dark side of Hollywood and child actors. The conversation then shifts to the evolution of TV shows and comedy, the decline of football, and the excitement of players like Patrick Mahomes. They also discuss the dangers and benefits of football, the impact of video games on social skills, and the allure of rugby and boxing. This part of the conversation explores the power of team sports in building confidence and social skills. The negative impact of screens and social media addiction is discussed, highlighting the dangers of excessive screen time. The challenges of navigating social media algorithms and the toxic nature of online communication are also examined. The conversation then shifts to the importance of creating safe neighborhoods for children and providing a wholesome upbringing in the current environment. The decline of safe neighborhoods and the need to find safe communities for children are addressed. The chapter concludes with a discussion on the importance of play and social interaction in child development. The conversation explores the perception of safety and crime rates, highlighting the discrepancy between the actual statistics and the portrayal in the media. The impact of information and social media on this perception is also discussed. The concept of hyper vigilance in parenting is examined, with a focus on how it has changed over generations. The importance of knowing your neighbors and building trust in the community is emphasized. The debate on whether harsher penalties for crime are necessary is touched upon. The episode concludes with a wrap-up and contact information for the hosts.

Takeaways

Lower stress and avoiding alcohol and smoking can help maintain a youthful appearance.

Child actors in Hollywood often face traumatic experiences and exploitation.

Football and other team sports can teach important life skills and provide a sense of camaraderie.

Video games can negatively impact social skills and communication abilities.

Rugby and boxing offer thrilling and physically demanding alternatives to traditional team sports.

Chapters

00:00 The Secret to Looking Young

03:00 The Impact of Alcohol and Stress on Aging

06:00 The Funniest Presidents and TV Shows

09:00 The Dark Side of Hollywood and Child Actors

12:00 The Evolution of TV Shows and Comedy

15:00 The Super Bowl and the Decline of Football

18:00 The Excitement of Patrick Mahomes in Football

21:00 The Dangers and Benefits of Football

25:00 The Impact of Video Games on Social Skills

28:00 The Allure of Rugby and Boxing

30:11 The Power of Team Sports

32:03 Confidence and Social Skills

33:06 The Impact of Screens and Social Media

36:14 The Dangers of Social Media Addiction

40:08 Navigating Twitter and Social Media Algorithms

44:18 The Challenges of Online Communication

48:07 Creating Safe Neighborhoods for Children

53:51 Providing a Wholesome Upbringing in the Current Environment

59:00 The Decline of Safe Neighborhoods

01:01:18 Finding Safe Communities for Children

01:02:11 The Importance of Play and Social Interaction

01:02:58 Perception of Safety and Crime Rates

01:04:38 The Impact of Information and Social Media

01:06:19 Hyper Vigilance and Parenting

01:07:29 Changing Perspectives on Safety

01:09:31 Knowing Your Neighbors

01:10:13 Building Trust in the Community

01:12:43 The Debate on Harsher Penalties for Crime

01:14:15 Wrap-up and Contact Information

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In this episode, the hosts discuss various topics related to technology and video games. They start by sharing personal updates and discussing the use of wearable devices. They then delve into the debate on the impact of video games on children, with one host expressing a decision to ban video games for his children. The hosts also share their personal experiences and strategies for managing video game use, emphasizing the importance of parental involvement and alternative activities. They conclude by discussing the different approaches to video game use within families. The conversation covers topics such as limiting screen time and video games, the influence of YouTube and online content, the potential dangers of excessive screen time, the importance of coaching and being present for kids, making the decision to pursue business and time management, finding your work and prioritizing time, and dealing with impulses and patience as a parent. In this conversation, the hosts discuss the challenges of fatherhood and share their experiences. They talk about the internal dialogue and self-doubt that fathers sometimes face. They also emphasize the importance of patience and communication in parenting. The hosts share their strategies for engaging with their children and teaching them important life skills. They conclude the conversation by sharing their contact information and thanking the listeners.

Takeaways

Wearable devices like Apple goggles raise concerns about their impact on personal well-being and social interactions.

Video game addiction is a common issue among children, and parents should be mindful of the potential negative effects.

Limiting video game use and encouraging alternative activities can help children develop other skills and interests.

Parental involvement and setting boundaries are crucial in managing video game use within families.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates

03:08 Discussion on the Use of Technology and Wearable Devices

08:08 Debate on the Impact of Video Games on Children

17:36 Personal Experiences and Strategies for Managing Video Game Use

26:39 The Importance of Parental Involvement and Alternative Activities

31:06 Different Approaches to Video Game Use within Families

31:36 Limiting Screen Time and Video Games

38:32 The Influence of YouTube and Online Content

43:09 The Potential Dangers of Excessive Screen Time

48:18 The Importance of Coaching and Being Present for Kids

56:14 Making the Decision to Pursue Business and Time Management

59:02 Finding Your Work and Prioritizing Time

01:02:45 Dealing with Impulses and Patience as a Parent

01:03:39 Challenges of Fatherhood

01:04:19 Patience and Communication

01:05:15 Dealing with Multiple Children

01:05:55 Conclusion

Sprawling and elite-tier discussion. Topics include hair, Tom Cruise, Natty Superman, cold plunges, and finally teaching manners and etiquette to children.

Featuring our special guest AJAC.

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SHOW NOTES:

Summary

In this episode, the hosts are joined by a special guest, AJAC, to discuss various topics. They start by introducing Uncommon Elite, a new venture they are working on. The conversation then shifts to the topic of shampooing hair, with different perspectives on the benefits and drawbacks of using shampoo. They also discuss musicals and recommend movies to watch. The hosts share their thoughts on Tom Cruise films and engage in a conversation about coffee tasting and business ethics. The discussion then turns to cold plunging and the health benefits associated with it. Finally, they talk about personal fitness and the importance of attraction in relationships. In this part of the conversation, the hosts discuss sauna etiquette, the importance of health habits, the benefits of cold showers, and the impact of exercise on mood and relationships. They also explore the role of rituals in personal evolution and the art of baking. The conversation then shifts to teaching manners and politeness to children, leading by example, and setting standards. Finally, they discuss the importance of expressing gratitude and writing thank you notes. The conversation explores the topic of apologizing and taking responsibility. It discusses the importance of apologizing when one has done something wrong, regardless of whether it is from a position of strength or weakness. The conversation also delves into the concept of emotional cripples in the Red Pill community and how their perspective on apologizing is flawed.

Takeaways

Developing personal rituals, such as sauna sessions and cold showers, can have a positive impact on physical and mental well-being.

Health habits, including sleep, healthy light environments, nutrition, and exercise, are foundational for overall well-being.

Teaching manners and politeness to children is important for fostering positive social interactions and setting expectations for behavior.

Expressing gratitude and writing thank you notes can cultivate a sense of appreciation and strengthen relationships. Apologizing is important when one has done something wrong, regardless of the position of strength or weakness.

The perspective of not apologizing for anything is flawed and can lead to loneliness and a lack of healthy relationships.

Creating an environment where apologizing is encouraged helps foster trust and growth in relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Special Guest

00:54 Introducing Uncommon Elite

02:25 Discussion on Shampooing Hair

03:28 Different Perspectives on Hair Care

06:33 Musicals and Movie Recommendations

09:17 Tom Cruise Films

12:14 Coffee Tasting and Business Ethics

20:23 Cold Plunging and Health Benefits

22:06 Discussion on Cold Showers

27:58 Personal Fitness and Attraction

29:26 Sauna Etiquette and Personal Rituals

32:14 The Importance of Health Habits

36:15 The Impact of Exercise on Mood and Relationships

38:12 The Role of Rituals and Personal Evolution

41:46 The Importance of Action and Movement

44:30 The Art of Baking and Attention to Detail

48:19 Teaching Manners and Politeness to Children

55:22 Leading by Example and Setting Standards

58:12 Expressing Gratitude and Writing Thank You Notes

01:00:45 Apologizing and Taking Responsibility

01:06:38 Creating an Environment of Apology

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We talk about our personal philosophies around showing our kids on social media. We also talk about when and how to approach letting kids use social media and technology in general. (Topic submitted by x/twitter user @trentonfcole - check him out!)

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We got a message from an expectant father, and we tackle his particular situation, while also giving our best broad advice for men who are new to their fatherhood journey.

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We answer a question from a follower who is a divorced dad of 2. Here's how we would approach the role of father in his position.

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A listener writes in when his boss demands he works during a planned vacation with his family.

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