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Sometimes we need to be raw and honest about the ugly - and in today's episode, the sisters are taking on the 'ugly' behind comparison, envy, and jealousy. From our own experiences of comparison and jealousy, to talking about the challenges facing women being pitted against each other, tune into another episode where we go deep into what it takes to 'keep up with the Joneses'.

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So is it true that we're in the advent of 'monitoring spirits'? Are Black Women once again being told to be 'softer' to embrace their femininity? Are we joining what seems like an imminent world war? From bringing back slang words to the Barbie 'snub', it's the latest tea served piping hot on another episode of TMS Hottakes!

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 MC RK?

04:43 Are you joining the war?

08:25 If you were in a zombie apocalypse who would you bring?

11:25 The Barbie Snub

17:49 Black women would get more if they were softer...?!

23:58 The truth about Monitoring Spirits

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Whilst it may always appear like things are fine and dandy and #SoPlatonic between Courtney and Renée, the sisters are transparent about the reality of trouble in friendship paradise. They also touch base on female friendships more broadly, and whether or not it's realistic to expect to have lifelong, healthy female friendships in the age of loneliness and individualism.

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping: NEW BOOK ALERT!!

07:42 Dilemma Update: The right one is worth waiting for sis!

11:08 Ding Ding Dilemma: A professional pessimist at 18?!

28:55 The misrepresentation of female friendships

36:37 Dealing with your trust issues

41:07 Everyone is so suspicious

45:31 Learning to trust people

59:59 The UGLY parts of our friendship

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Apparently women are going childless by CHOICE and folks aren't happy about it? Not to mention, it looks like luxury products are in the bin too? We'll be chatting about this (as well as some more gist) on this week's TMS Hottakes!

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00:00 Already Exhausted & Living in an alternative universe

09:19 We all need better critical thinking skills

13:39 Being childless by choice

21:29 Things we’ve been loving recently

30:12 People are letting go of luxury...

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We're coming to the end of the month and the girls seem to be losing momentum! From being transparent about our own shortcomings, to addressing how we overcome self-sabotage and failure, the sisters get real about what it takes to bounce back.

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome & Announcements: South Africa LIVE SHOW details!

06:41 Ding Ding Dilemma: I think I want him back... but he might have moved on?

18:10 Starting to year off TOO hard

28:08 The sisters are self-sabotaging

39:23 Overcoming perfectionism through gratitude

44:17 Having a softer approach to discipline

51:00 Accepting that you aren't perfect

56:52 How to practically comeback from a setback

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From 'wasted virginity' to the clash between self-love and romance - in this week's episode, the TMS Hottakes is packed with the latest gist and girl talk over at the sisterhood HQ. Tune in now for the latest episode guaranteed to add some much needed heat to your day!

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00:00 Catching up with the sisters.

05:59 Being a virgin SUCKS?! Purity Politics

13:52 Our thoughts on if 'self-love can't beat romance'

18:12 Sex toys on PLT LOL

20:09 Public vs. private correction on the Internet

22:30 'Digital modesty', privacy & boundaries

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It seems like a lot of the sisters are feeling blue, especially with the pressures of life starting to creep up on us! From processing undealt-with trauma, to supporting sisters going through mental health challenges, the girls share their thoughts, experiences, and more - in the latest TMS episode!

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome & Announcements: South Africa LIVE SHOW details!

08:44 Ding Ding Dilemma: Should I go corporate just for the money?

26:49 Are mental health issues really on the rise?

28:45 Our experiences with depression, anxiety, and sadness

39:42 The complexity of being high-functioning

42:00 The burden that comes with wisdom and purpose

44:36 The importance of recognising the small things

46:31 Being consistent with wellness practices

50:34 Embracing transparency

54:11 Allowing yourself to be vulnerable and seen

55:14 How to be a supportive sister

01:03:31 Allowing yourself to receive love and be sensitive

01:14:16 A prayer for you: peace, joy and love

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Hey sisters! We're back at it again with your midweek fix, coming in HOT with what's trending, our latest thoughts and a little bit of chit chat. From sisters poisoning their bestie due to jealousy, more Katt Williams drops and tuning into Marvel's latest series, it's about time to get into TMS Hottakes! 🔥

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome to the gist and laughter!

01:43 Ding Ding Dilemma: Should I embrace interracial dating?

08:20 This flue that's going around is NO JOKE!

12:26 Katt Williams is back at it again!

18:33 The leap year pattern...

19:59 Poisoning your best friend because of jealousy

25:21 The Receipts Podcast and the beauty of female friendships

28:57 Sisters in South Africa

31:34 Quarter life crisis' and frontal lobe development

37:34 What is paracetamol please?

39:43 What we've been watching lately

47:37 What's the best UK Slang?

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Dating felt like the dumps for a lot of the sisters last year, and even though women are starting to embrace singleness, there's still a lot of women out there who have given up hope to find a life partner. In today's episode, the sisters weigh in on what it looks like to embrace singleness this year, and whether finding 'Mr Right' is nothing but a pipedream.

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome & Announcements: We're officially billboard babes!!

07:31 Ding Ding Dilemma: I might be pregnant...

24:30 Why is our generation embracing singleness more?

31:37 Modern pressures on romantic relationships

38:43 The money issue...

40:49 We've got commitment and trust issues

47:44 Analysing a trend in divorce rates.

50:55 The idolatry of marriage and the misunderstanding of femininity

01:00:59 Enduring hard seasons in relationships

01:05:23 The difference between hard seasons and dysfunction

01:08:23 What the season of singleness is and is not.

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Introducing TMS Hottakes - the sisters' take on the hottest topics of the week! The sisters asked, and we delivered. The official mid-week gist, candid conversation, and opinionated space where we'll be talking everything from our takes on the latest TikToks, conspiracy theories, movies, and more. Make sure you have either a tea or a wine in hand sis, it's about to get hot in here!

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