Living Centered Podcast

For this first episode of the new season, we get to chat with Onsite Clinician Ryan Bloch-Snodgrass and set the stage for the conversations to come!

Ryan, Lindsey, and Mickenzie explore the connection between our relationship patterns today and our earliest, formative relationships. She provides us with an expansive look at our relationships and invites us into deeper connections with ourselves and others.

Mentioned in this episode:

3:37 – Expanding our understanding of relationships beyond romantic partnerships

5:12 – All roads lead back to family of origin

10:19 – How our childhood impacts our current relationships

15:50 – Navigating how to name the pain of our past

20:30 – How reparent ourselves as parents

23:32 – Identifying what we need in relationships

28:07 – The fundamental differences between Onsite’s Healthy Relationships Program and Living Centered Program

32:34 – How attachment plays out in various relationships

40:42 – Finding the right therapeutic resources for your relationships

43:26 – How TikTok informs our understanding of mental health concepts like gaslighting, codependency and boundaries

Onsite Experiences mentioned in this episode:

Onsite's Living Centered Program
There’s always room for more — depth, contentment, healing, love, purpose.
Whether you’re feeling stuck or broken, overwhelmed or ready to dig deeper, we can guide you to the more you’re seeking.

Onsite's Healthy Love and Relationships Program

Break up with destructive patterns and learn how to give (and accept) the meaningful affection we all deserve. We’ll tackle the tough stuff, support your healing, and set you on the path to authentic connections that will light your path forward.

Discover the Right Onsite Experience For You
Whether you’re in a challenging season or just want to learn and grow, Onsite has an experience to meet you right where you are and guide you to the more you’re seeking.

We pair the finest hospitality with the best clinical minds in the country to guide you toward lasting transformation. Our holistic care is thoughtfully designed to help you connect to yourself and the community you form at Onsite.

You deserve healing. We're here to guide you! Start the process today or connect with our Admissions team at 1-800-341-7432 to discover the right experience for you!

Join our co-hosts for a sneak peek into the newest season of the Living Centered Podcast, launching Monday, May 6!

For this new season of the podcast, we sat down with some of our favorite experts and emotional health sojourners to explore the relationships that make up our lives—from friends to family to our relationships with ourselves, this season dives deep into the “what,” “who,” and “how” of healthy relationships.

Part practical resource and part honest storytelling that will have you silently nodding, “Me too,” these conversations provide valuable wisdom and firsthand experiences about how to show up for ourselves and others in the relationships that matter most to us.

Today, Onsite Lead clinician Carlos Martinez joins Mickenzie for an authentic and informative conversation about the ways unresolved painful past events can lead to unhealthy sexual addictions and coping patterns.

We hope this conversation sheds light on this sometimes taboo topic and leaves you with resources and encouragement. Carlos provides expertise, empathy, and encouragement, whether you're struggling, are the partner of someone struggling, or are a mental health professional working in this space. Throughout this conversation, Mickenzie and Carlos also discuss Onsite's upcoming program for men struggling with sex addiction and problematic sexual behaviors, Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy - March 13-20, hosted on our California campus.

The Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy Program is a week-long workshop that offers a unique therapeutic experience for men who are coping with unresolved, painful past events through unhealthy sexual addiction and patterns by creating a safe space for healing. We guide and encourage you to move from a place of shame and isolation into greater intimacy and connection with yourself and others.

To learn more about this experience, our admissions team would love to connect with you on a confidential call at 1-800-341-7432.

Mentioned in this episode:
Sexual Addiction Screening Test
Find a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT)

Discover the Right Onsite Experience For You
Whether you’re in a challenging season or just want to learn and grow, Onsite has an experience to meet you right where you are and guide you to the more you’re seeking.

We pair the finest hospitality with the best clinical minds in the country to guide you toward lasting transformation. Our holistic care is thoughtfully designed to help you connect to yourself and the community you form at Onsite.

You deserve healing. We're here to guide you! Start the process today or connect with our Admissions team at 1-800-341-7432 to discover the right experience for you!

If you’ve been listening to the podcast for long, you’ve probably heard us talk about the concept of living centered. But what does that actually mean? And why is it such an important part of the Onsite experience? Today Mickenzie and Lindsey get to sit down with our Chairman and Proprietor, Miles Adcox, to discuss the concept of Living Centered, how it has become an experience that transcends beyond our in-person group experience, and why Onsite is passionate about helping people optimize and build meaning back to the human experience.

Join us for the final episode of this phenomenal series! Catch up with the rest of the series.

In this episode:

5:33 – How Miles got on the emotional health journey

10:31 – The most common emotional health struggles we face

18:15 – Our collective window of tolerance is decreasing

21:33 – How to sustainably come alongside people who are struggling

25:13 – The mental health trend Miles is excited (and wary) about

36:59 – Miles' Living Centered story

42:07 – The Experience - Onsite's Newest Offering for Workshop Alum

52:44 – How to do an Emotional Body Scan

Onsite Experiences mentioned in this episode:

The Experience - Workshop for Alums

You’ve felt it. The grace and understanding that comes from sharing some of your most formative moments with empathetic witnesses. The feeling of being truly seen, known, and loved for who you are, not what you do. The relief that comes from healing what hurts and finding a new way forward.

But our “work” is never done. More healing, more insight, and more growth is waiting for you. That’s why we created “The Experience” —an opportunity designed exclusively for you, an Onsite workshop alum, to return to campus and discover your next layer of healing.

Onsite's Living Centered Program

There’s always room for more — depth, contentment, healing, love, purpose.

Whether you’re feeling stuck or broken, overwhelmed or ready to dig deeper, we can guide you to the more you’re seeking.

Because this is the season of giving. We're so excited to give you, our loyal podcast listeners, an extremely special offer. We've never done this before. And I'm seriously over the moon that I get to share with you. If you sign up for and attend a Living Centered Program in the month of December or January, we'll give you $1,000 off just as a thank you for listening to the podcast.

To find a full list of our December and January Living Centered Program and start the registration process connect with our admissions team at 1-800-341-7432 or check out our website!

To get this discount, All you have to do is let our admissions team know that you're a podcast listener. Thank you again for listening and subscribing!

As the saying goes, the only constant is change. Everywhere we look, transition is a fundamental and present part of our lives. According to author Bruce Feller, the average person goes through at least one big life transition every 12-18 months. If we’re not currently walking through a season of change, we’ve either just navigated one or are about to.

Today, author and Certified Personal and Executive Coach Brandi Wilson joins Mickenzie and Lindsey to chat all about navigating transition, starting again, and how to come out better than okay on the other side of a change you didn’t ask for or ever dream of. As Brandi shares in this interview, the life and family she spent 20 years building stopped on a dime, and through a difficult and heartbreaking process, Brandi picked up the pieces to recreate her life and now helps others find hope and healing on the other side of endings.

In this episode:
4:48 – How Brandi’s life fell apart over night

14:18 – The importance of trusting your intuition in the midst of difficulty

18:23 – The messy middle of transition

21:48 – How to be better than okay in transition

27:23 – How to support loved ones through change and difficult circumstances

34:23 – Parenting after divorce and redefining family after trauma

41:15 – How Brandi knew it was time to do Onsite’s Living Centered Program

43:26 – Brandi's practice for living centered

Because this is the season of giving. We're so excited to give you, our loyal podcast listeners, an extremely special offer. We've never done this before. And I'm seriously over the moon that I get to share with you. If you sign up for and attend a Living Centered Program in the month of December or January, we'll give you $1,000 off just as a thank you for listening to the podcast.

To find a full list of our December and January Living Centered Program and start the registration process connect with our admissions team at 1-800-341-7432 or check out our website!

To get this discount, All you have to do is let our admissions team know that you're a podcast listener. Thank you again for listening and subscribing!

Do you ever feel like you're running on fumes? No matter how much sleep you get, how many days off you take, or how often you "rest," you still feel exhausted. You're not alone.

Sixty-five percent of Americans say they rarely wake up feeling rested and energized.

Today's guest, Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, a Board-Certified internal medicine physician, speaker, and award-winning author of Sacred Rest, suggests the problem isn't that you're not resting but that you're not getting the right rest. Join Mickenzie and Hannah as they explore Dr. Saundra's findings around the seven types of rest and how addressing our individual rest deficits can lead to unlocking our greatest potential, better mental health, overcoming burnout, and more.

In this episode:

5:09 – How Dr. Saundra addressed her personal burnout

11:06 – The relationships between sleep and rest

16:46 – Dr. Saundra’s definition of rest

18:13 – The seven types of rest

23:09 – How to address our rest deficits

28:19 – Why we can’t rest

34:21 – How to celebrate other’s ability to rest

39:40 – Different ways to build rhythms to care for our rest deficits

48:30 – How Dr. Saundra gets seven types of rest

Because this is the season of giving. We're so excited to give you, our loyal podcast listeners, an extremely special offer. We've never done this before. And I'm seriously over the moon that I get to share with you. If you sign up for and attend a Living Centered Program in the month of December or January, we'll give you $1,000 off just as a thank you for listening to the podcast.

To find a full list of our December and January Living Centered Program and start the registration process connect with our admissions team at 1-800-341-7432 or check out our website!

To get this discount, All you have to do is let our admissions team know that you're a podcast listener. Thank you again for listening and subscribing!

What if we told you that joy was not what we thought it was? What if our joy wasn’t dependent on our present circumstances, past stories, or future outlook?

Today, Mickenzie and Hannah chat with therapist Elyse Snipes about the elusive topic of joy. Together, they explore the rebellious act of chasing and reclaiming our joy.

Mentioned in this episode:
6:31 – What is our inner child?

13:35 – Integrating our inner child into our present

19:12 – How embracing joy can be an act of rebellion

23:37 – The difference between joy and happiness

27:05 – Embracing joy and finding meaning in difficult times

34:51 – Why we need to chase joy

43:07 – Separating our joy from our circumstances

49:18 – How Elyse chases joy in her everyday roles

54:55 – Tapping into our internal longings

Because this is the season of giving. We're so excited to give you, our loyal podcast listeners, an extremely special offer. We've never done this before. And I'm seriously over the moon that I get to share with you. If you sign up for and attend a Living Centered Program in the month of December or January, we'll give you $1,000 off just as a thank you for listening to the podcast.

To find a full list of our December and January Living Centered Program and start the registration process connect with our admissions team at 1-800-341-7432 or check out our website!

To get this discount, All you have to do is let our admissions team know that you're a podcast listener. Thank you again for listening and subscribing!

Happy Holidays from the Onsite team! We’re sending you our warmest thoughts and best wishes for a wonderful holiday season.

This time of year can be fun and filled with merriment, but let’s be real—it can also be weird. From the strange dynamics of spending time with people you haven't seen all year, to the nebulous time between December 25th and January 1st, to the endless days in soft pants sipping on cocoa, this season can often feel blurry and wayward.

Today, Mickenzie and Hannah bring you a special bonus episode to help you create intentional connection this season. Whether this is your favorite time of year or you’re navigating less than “merry and bright” feelings, we want to equip you to lean in, be present, and connect with yourself and others in life-giving ways.

Mentioned in this Episode:
Meaningful Conversations to Have Around the Table This Year

• What brought you joy this year?
• What was challenging about this year?
• When did you see your own resilience this year?
• What's one of your favorite memories you have with someone else around the table?
• What's one high, low, and "uh-oh" from this year?
• Share one word to describe what you see in each person around the table.
• What's something that's been inspiring you lately?
• What's something that surprised you this year?
• Who is someone that showed up for you this year?
• What's one dream you have for the year to come?

FREE WEBINAR:
What To Do When The Holidays Don't Feel Happy
It’s the most wonderful time of the year…but for some of us, it sure doesn’t feel that way.

Life doesn’t get put on hold for the sake of our calendars. Many are navigating loss, pain, grief, and hardship amid a season that is supposed to be merry and bright.

Even if we’re not currently navigating suffering, this time of year can take a toll on us all. With the added busyness, expectations, and pressure to make the most of the season, for many of us, the holidays can feel like anything but “happy.” The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) reports that 64% of individuals with a mental illness feel their conditions worsen around the holidays.

So what do we do when the holidays don’t feel happy? Do we medicate our feelings with extra doses of egg nog, cookies, and holiday spirits? Do we unload our burdens on the well-meaning acquaintance at a party who asks how we’ve been? Do we just put our heads down and march forward until January 1st?

Join us for a free 50-minute webinar exploring the best ways to support yourself and your loved ones through this season.

Let’s just admit it: having friends as an adult can be difficult. Many of us struggle to find the time, emotional capacity, and intention we need to have the deep, meaningful friendships we want.

Today Mickenzie and Lindsey sit down with Erin Falconer, psychotherapist and author of the new book How to Break Up With Your Friends, to discuss how we can find meaning and connection in our modern friendships. Erin brings honesty, permission, and the practical encouragement we all need to approach friendships with the same intention that we do all other important relationships in our lives.

In this episode:
5:12 – Why we should audit our friendships

9:55 – Treating friendships with the same intention as romantic relationships

14:44 – How to do conflict resolution with friends

17:16 – When it’s time to break-up with friends

21:00 – Setting boundaries in friendship

25:38 – The importance of diverse friendships

31:58 – Friendships after an Onsite experience

37:25 – Why we need self-awareness in our friendships

39:50 – How our attachment styles affect our friendships

44:02 – Repair friendships and shifting dynamics

48:26 – Erin’s favorite practice to live centered

Because this is the season of giving. We're so excited to give you, our loyal podcast listeners, an extremely special offer. We've never done this before. And I'm seriously over the moon that I get to share with you. If you sign up for and attend a Living Centered Program in the month of December or January, we'll give you $1,000 off just as a thank you for listening to the podcast.

To find a full list of our December and January Living Centered Program and start the registration process connect with our admissions team at 1-800-341-7432 or check out our website!

To get this discount, All you have to do is let our admissions team know that you're a podcast listener. Thank you again for listening and subscribing!

At our core we all want to be seen, heard, valued, and connected. But few of us know how to live this in real life.

Today’s guest, Jason VanRuler therapist, Onsite Guide, and author of the new book “Get Past Your Past,” joins Hannah and Mickenzie to provide a blueprint for creating connection with the people around us . Together the three define what it means to truly connect, how our attachment style impacts our connections, why not everyone can hold our vulnerability, and how to identify safe people.

In this episode:

6:36 – Our deepest needs to be seen, heard, valued, and connection in realtionships

9:56 – Forming safe connections and community

15:58 – How to find safe people in our lives

21:14 – Why our Attachment styles impacts our connection with others

31:39 – How to navigate conflict in relationships and identifying our non-negotiables

34:56 – Identifying what really matters in our relationships

37:56 – Jason’s encouragement to lean into community when it doesn’t feel safe

39:31 – How to celebrate growth within ourselves

41:22 – A practice that keeps Jason connection to the people in his life

Because this is the season of giving. We're so excited to give you, our loyal podcast listeners, an extremely special offer. We've never done this before. And I'm seriously over the moon that I get to share with you. If you sign up for and attend a Living Centered Program in the month of December or January, we'll give you $1,000 off just as a thank you for listening to the podcast.

To find a full list of our December and January Living Centered Program and start the registration process connect with our admissions team at 1-800-341-7432 or check out our website!

To get this discount, All you have to do is let our admissions team know that you're a podcast listener. Thank you again for listening and subscribing!