She Said What?
by Alyssa HarperIf you want to find confidence in living as your authentic self, this podcast is for you. Whether you’re exploring your sexuality, growing into new beliefs or simply wanting to become the best version of yourself, Alyssa Harper (@alyssataylorharper) is here to empower you on your journey of self growth and exploration. Facebook Group: 'She Said What? Podcast Group'
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Episodes
40. The Top 12 Things I Wish I Knew About Sex in Highschool
54m · PublishedIf your sex education in school was as bad as mine, this episode is for you. In this episode, we talk all things consent, virginity, orgasms and blue balls??? We also get to hear some tips from the SSW listener community! Educated sex is fun, pleasurable and shame-free, so let’s get up to speed.
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Resources:
The Courage to Be Disliked - Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga (Book)
Come As You Are - Emly Nagoski
VUSH - Lube & Toys & Other Fun Things
MAX BLACK (AUS, stores or online)
39. How to Be More Confident & Get The Things You Want
59m · PublishedTHIS IS THE CONFIDENCE BOOST YOU NEED. In this episode, through a mix of encouragement and tough love, you'll learn how to increase your self esteem, have a better relationship with your body and how to put your authentic self out there! Let this episode be your turning point.
Connect with Alyssa Harper
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JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP
This group is an opportunity for community, growth and discussion around the weekly topics from the pod. PS. we have a book club and it's super cute.
Resources:
The Courage to Be Disliked - Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga (Book)
Imogen Ivy (Insta)
Riley Hemson (Insta)
May Ridts (Insta)
Jamie Zella (Insta)
38. Deconstructing Your Beliefs (My Story of Leaving The Church)
58m · PublishedThis episode is for the following people:
• someone who wants to unlearn toxic beliefs & mindsets they’ve been taught (by family, the church, or even just general societal norms that are harmful)
• someone who wants to re-establish their overall mindset on themselves and the world; establish their true values
• someone who feels lost after leaving the church (wants to fill the gaps)
• advice for those who have different beliefs to their friends & family + how to manage these relationships
Disclaimer: This episode is not here to encourage you that this is the path YOU should take but to educate on deconstructing and how to even begin this process. I hope that the conclusions you may come to after listening to this episode speaks to YOU and gives you the framework to explore YOUR truth. I do not wish to offend anyone and know that this is just my personal journey, as I hope to encourage and help others in this process.
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This group is an opportunity for community, growth and discussion around the weekly topics from the pod. PS. we have a book club and it's super cute.
Resources/Creators to Follow
Values Quiz
The Courage to Be Disliked - Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga (Book)
God is Grey - Youtube
God is Grey - Instagram
The Naked Pastor - Website
The Naked Pastor - Instagram
37. Everything YOU Need to Know About Bisexuality
1h 7m · PublishedDo you have questions about bisexuality? Maybe you're bisexual or thinking you might be. Maybe you're in a relationship with somebody who identifies as bi and you simply want to educate yourself. In this episode, we discuss the reality of being bisexual: why it's something to be proud of, coming out, common mental health struggles, intersectionality, threesomes and more!
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Resources
Bi by Julia Shaw
Greedy by Jen Winston
36. Sex & Relationship Advice w/ Alyssa Ljub
1h 16m · PublishedJoining us is Sex and Relationship Coach, Alyssa Ljub, answering the super juicy anonymous questions sent in by you guys! In this episode, we touch on: exploring your sexual self & sexuality without shame exploring relationships with women for the first time (as a woman) open relationships/non-monogamy religious beliefs and sex ethical porn how to stop having pain during sex enthusiastic consent & communicating your wants/needs in the bedroom
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This group is an opportunity for community, growth and discussion around the weekly topics from the pod. PLUS, we will be running a Book Club focused around self growth, sexual wellness and feminism (more info soon to come)!
35. How to Initiate Sex with Your Partner
44m · PublishedHave you felt like you're never the one to initiate? Do you want to have sex more, but you don't want to wait around to be asked? Has your partner asked you to initiate more but you don't know how? If you said yes to ANY of these questions: this episode is for you!
We all want our partners to feel wanted, but being the one to initiate sex can be challenging if you're not used to doing it. You might think it needs to be a grand gesture, but it doesn't! In this episode, I explain the different types of desire and how to apply it to your relationship (understanding this changed my sex life)! Plus, I give you 10 different ways to initiate sex, whether you're confident in this area or not. It's time to try something new and prioritize your pleasure!
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This space will provide additional resources based on the weekly episodes. PLUS, we will be running a Book Club focused around self growth, sexual wellness and feminism (more info to come)! This is a chance for community, growth and discussion around the weekly topics from the pod.
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34. Oversharing Q&A (kink, relationships, church trauma + advice)
1h 21m · PublishedWant to know all my secrets? Not related to me? Great! Because in this episode, you'll get to know me a little better (or a lot better) and hear my advice on the messages you guys sent in! Enjoy hearing me overshare for an hour. Buckle up.
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This space will provide additional resources based on the weekly episodes. PLUS, a Book Club focused around self growth, sexual wellness and feminism (more info to come)! This is a chance for community, growth and discussion around the weekly topics from the pod.
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Resources:
Fight The New Drug
Greedy by Jen Winston
God is Grey
Naked Pastor
Kosas - Deodorant
Aveda Hair
Dermalogica
Max Black Sex Shop
33. How to Seek Out, Without Burning Out
50m · PublishedHave you ever tried to do it all at once? Have you ever been overwhelmed by the layers of everything you're trying to accomplish? This episode is about acknowledging the current season you're living in so that you can get the most out of your every day life. In this episode, you will get a step-by-step journalling practice that will help change the way you manage your goals and passions.
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This space will provide additional resources based on the weekly episodes. PLUS, a Book Club focused around self growth, sexual wellness and feminism (more info to come)! This is a chance for community, growth and discussion around the weekly topics from the pod.
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32. Visualization Will Change Your Life (Here's Why!)
1h 0m · PublishedHave you ever not gone for something because you "just can't picture yourself doing it"? So many of our daily choices come back to visualization and the lens we see ourselves through. It's time we wipe the smudge off that lens and see the potential that truly lies within us. In this episode, we discuss the science behind WHY visualization actually works and how you can incorporate it into your life to create the life you've always wanted. We discuss automatic negative thoughts and how to change the narrative because you deserve a live filled with decisions made out of self confidence, not fear.
JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP
This space will provide additional resources based on the weekly episodes. PLUS, a Book Club focused around self growth, sexual wellness and feminism (more info to come)! This is a chance for community, growth and discussion around the weekly topics from the pod.
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Sources:
The Powerful Connection Between Your Hips and Your Emotions
The Anti Anxiety Notebook
The Body Keeps The Score
31. How to Have Bigger and Better Orgasms
55m · PublishedHave you ever wondered... What even is an orgasm? Does it just feel good or are there other benefits? Why do I sometimes feel sad after sex? Well, today you get the answers! In this episode, we also cover how your pelvic floor, your hormones and even your self-confidence can affect your orgasms. Get ready to enhance your sex life!
JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP
This space will provide additional resources based on the weekly episodes. PLUS, a Book Club focused around self growth, sexual wellness and feminism (more info to come)! This is a chance for community, growth and discussion around the weekly topics from the pod.
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Links
Ways to Give and Donate to Planned Parenthood
The Three Biggest Implications For Black Women From Roe V. Wade's Fall
She Said What? has 73 episodes in total of non- explicit content. Total playtime is 69:12:57. The language of the podcast is English. This podcast has been added on November 27th 2022. It might contain more episodes than the ones shown here. It was last updated on May 30th, 2024 12:41.