Transforming Relationship with Emotional Savvy

Wow! Does thinking of yourself as being UNSTOPPABLE light you up? Then, you'll love today's episode!

Connie Phieff was adopted--but she didn't know it until later in life--and lived her young life a bit like Cinderella. Now, you know that's not good, right? Cook, clean, take care of the kids, repeat!

How Connie overcame the pain of her past toxic life to go on and create such amazing accomplishments is inspirational. She became a leader in the community and in her own life in every way.

Yes, not only did she come from a toxic home, but she went on--as most of us do--to marry a toxic person. Oh, no, that didn't stop her, either. That's where she really started developing her recipe for lemonade from all the lemons in life. She knew she needed to cleanse the negativity from life if she wanted the life she envisioned. AND, she did it!

Listen as she shares her story, her vulnerabilities, her tears, and her learning. All this propelled her to the amazing successes she has now!

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• Why what happened to you in your young life does not have to define your adult life
• What it takes to turn those lemons into lemonade and succeed
• How adoption and alienation played into Connie's young life
• How you can find the confidence to live fully
• Three top things that make you unstoppable...according to Connie Pheiff

>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you.

ARE YOU--OR, HAVE YOU BEEN--IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH A PARTNER, EX, PARENT, OR SIBLING? Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!

GUEST: CONNIE PHEIFF

From cleaning houses to filling houses, Connie Pheiff, Philanthropist, Social Venture Entrepreneur, and #BeyondMeToo Activist is the Jewel in the Crown of the Pheiff Group, Inc. With her distinctive voice audiences everywhere know her.

She is blessed from her work as a corporate CEO, award-winning speaker, Podcaster, Mentor, Coach, and author. She is provocative, edgy, and brings a genuine humor to the platform.

Connie is best known as the Unstoppable DIVA; Former Corporate Executive tuned Media Industrialist. Since founding the Pheiff Group, Inc. in 2007, she has become a Social Venture Entrepreneur, producer, and host of the Connie Pheiff Show; and founder of Talent Concierge, representing the World’s most daring minds. She has authored five business books, and coming soon is her most powerful book yet, about her Unstoppable life. She is the former CEO of Girl Scouts of Penn’s Woods Council, Recipient of the Community Leadership Award (2016); and most recently received the Inspirational Woman in Media Award (2019); and Finalist for the 2018 Indie Author Legacy Award. Insights Success Magazine calls her “a symbol of Exemplary Entrepreneurship.” Connie always shares a bit of herself; a life of spectacularly epic fails. Through it all, her success hasn’t come in spite of her failures, but because of them.

FREE GIFT FROM CONNIE PHEIFF :

Connie is happy to give you an autographed copy of her book, Marketing Masters. If you'd like to have one, email Connie at [email protected]

CONTACT INFO FOR CONNIE PHIEFF:

Website: talent.concierge.co

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LinkedIn: @ConniePheiff

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Instagram:@talentconcierge.co

Twitter:  @ConniePheiff

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Got Empathy? That's one key that unlocks the willingness to enter into a problem-solving process with your partner, according to today's guest, Dr. James. L. Creighton. You need more!

Dr. Creighton says:

"Empathy allows us to enter into the emotional reality of our loved ones, so that even when there are differences, there is still shared experience."

In today's episode, I'm asking how to keep that 'shared experience' loving, kind, and helpful. It takes willingness, skill, finesse, and interest to keep a relationship strong and growing. Dr. Creighton has been married for a very long time. He openly shares the good and not-so-good moments, and how he and his wife have weathered the difficult ones.

His recent book, Loving Through Your Differences, draws on the latest research in cognitive science and developmental psychology to show how we invent our realities with our perceptual minds. He offers clear, concrete tools for shifting perceptions and reframing responses, with the result that couples move out of the fear and alienation of "your way or my way" and into a deep understanding of the other that allows for an "our way."

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• Why the ability to reframe is important to loving through your differences
• How Dr. Creighton's Five Minute Rule helps let off steam
• Important steps in the problem-solving process that can't be missed
• How to get past not agreeing with each other
• Do we have to share an "emotional reality" in order to stay together?

>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!

GUEST: JAMES L. CREIGHTON, PhD

James L. Creighton, PhD, is the author of Loving Through Your Differences. A psychologist and relationship consultant, he has worked with couples and conducted communications training for more than fifty years. Creighton recently developed and conducted couples conflict training for several hundred professional staff of the Thailand Department of Mental Health, based on a new Thai translation of his book, How Loving Couples Fight. He has taught throughout North America as well as in Korea, Japan, Israel, Brazil, Egypt, Russia, and the Republic of Georgia.

FREE GIFT FROM JAMES CREIGHTON : Not at this time.

CONTACT INFO FOR JAMES CREIGHTON:

Website: JamesLCreighton.com

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Website: TransformingRelationship.com

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Dating? Is it a joy, a pleasure, a pain, or a concern? Sometimes, it's each of those, right?

And, sometimes, it's just downright scary!

If you've had past relationship with toxic people, or toxic relationships in your family, friends, or at work, you'll find this episode valuable. We also talk about the issues that come up when dating after divorce, AND, the ever popular subject of online dating.

My guest today, Laura Richer says, "

I focus on dating and romantic relationships and it is my belief that difficult relationships and people are optional. When we continually attract difficult situations to us, we must first start with doing our own inner work and see what we can do to shift this experience. I help clients cultivate self-love and self-respect so that they can attract joyous and fulfilling relationships into their lives, not difficult people and situations."

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• What "authentic connection" is
• How to know when you've made one
• How your self-worth affects your dating effectiveness
• How you can stop attracting undesirable people
• Why focusing on the potential of a relationship is dangerous

>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!

GUEST: LAURA RICHER

Laura Richer is a certified Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, and Reiki practitioner, and the owner of Richer Healing Hypnosis, Rieki, and Life Coaching in Seattle, Washington. She is a graduate of Western Washington University.

Laura is currently completing her Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Antioch University. Her Hypnotherapy and Coaching practice over the last eight plus years has specialized in supporting clients in building confidence and self-worth so that they can attract the relationship they truly desire.

FREE GIFT FROM L:AURA RICHER : Not at this time.

CONTACT INFO FOR LAURA RICHER:

Website: DRicherLove.com

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Facebook: Facebook.com/CoachLauraRicher

Instagram: @richer_love

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Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

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If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.

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#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

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Are you a little shy about dating, or moving into a new relationship after a divorce?

What if you've been married once or twice? Do you have confidence to date again? Do you have confidence in choosing a new partner after divorce?

OK! Yes, there are a few fear-inspiring issues about dating again after a divorce, right?

Can I trust a new person?

Can I trust myself?

Will you see red flags?

When am I ready for emotional intimacy?

When do I consider moving to the bedroom and sexual intimacy?

What do I need to talk about to help a new partner understand me?

When do I talk about my past relationships?

Oh, yes! A few things to consider, for sure. That's why this fabulous conversation with Dr. Margaret Rutherford is so valuable--and practical--for you to listen to right now...and to share with your friends who are thinking about dating again.

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• What you need to discuss with a new partner
• When is the right time to talk about your past relationships
• How to approach dating again, especially after a difficult, toxic relationship
• Aging is real. How to talk about all that.
• What about boundaries?
• How do you solve problems in a new relationship

>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!

GUEST: DR. MARGARET RUTHERFORD

Dr. Margaret Rutherford, a clinical psychologist, has practiced for twenty-six years in Fayetteville, Arkansas., Her work can be found at DrMargaretRutherford.com, where she blogs weekly, as well as HuffPost, Psych Central, The Mighty, the Gottman Blog and others. She hosts a weekly podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford. Her new book, Perfectly Hidden Depression, will be published by New Harbinger in 2019.

Dr. Margaret as she's known to her followers decided to extend the walls of her practice almost 7 years ago and now blogs and podcasts about her ideas on depression, perfectionism and its antidote -- vulnerability. Her podcast has earned more than half a million downloads as people are tuning in to learn more about therapy and what makes real change happen.

FREE GIFT FROM DR. RUTHERFORD: Not at this time.

CONTACT INFO FOR DR. MARGARET RUTHERFORD

Website: DrMargaretRutherford.com

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Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®

If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.

#midlifedating #afraidtoloveagain #trustingagain #midliferelationshipissues #drmargaretrutherford

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

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Sometimes, we learn out greatest lessons by going through terrible pain and trauma.

It's never "worth it," in my opinion. But, it does change us, and can be the catalyst for our insights and growth. So, in that sense, we can be grateful for it.

How that change shows up is in our attitude, understanding, and often in the quality of help we get to heal.

You may find some sad similarities in what Joy shares with the story of your relationship with a #Hijackal. For instance:

Do you feel imprisoned?

Held hostage?

Physically abused?

Drugged?

Joy shares her story and insights about moving through and past these terrible experiences in order to have a fulfilling life.

Her journey through pain to a rich life with an amazing, supportive partner is inspiring. Today, we also talk about her long-time partner, love, and husband, and their cross-cultural marriage...and, all the learning she has to offer. See the highlights below!

NOTE: I need to put a WORD in here: In my opinion, not everything that Joy shares May be directly applicable to your relationships with #Hijackals. Think about that, and ask me if you're wondering, by joining in at OptimizeCircles.com in the discussion threads.

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• how fear is an important factor to look deeply into for your healing
• why it is essential to reconnect with yourself at deep levels
• how to find compassion, love, and wisdom to have it work for you
• learning to let go, and the results it creates
• the learning curve of marrying into a different culture...and, the joys
• Joy's transformational process

>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!

GUEST: JOY IDRIES,

Joy Idries certainly knows from personal experience how to move beyond struggle, fear, suffering and pain in her life and relationships to lasting freedom, happiness and joy. 

Her forthcoming book, “Goodbye Suffering Hello Joy” describes her experience of coming through various abusive relationships and the after effects of decades of chronic and life-threatening illness and how it is possible for others to move through it too. The moment she moved out of suffering and found her joy was when her ‘WHY’ was born, to help many thousands break free from the chains of suffering, to unleash their own true freedom and joy.

Her deep experiential wisdom and expertise as a therapeutic counsellor, international Inner Journey facilitator and spiritual teacher serve perfectly in enabling others to create a radical shift for themselves and their relationships, right from the inside out. 

FREE GIFT FROM JOY:

Read her ebook, How to 'Be' in a Relationship: Taking a deeper look at what relationship issues are all about, HERE

CONTACT INFO FOR JOY IDRIES

Website: TrulyTransformational.co.uk

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LinkedIn: @JoyIdries

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Twitter: @Lightanjoy

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If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.

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#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

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A comment complaint I hear in my practice--especially, of course, from people who have #Hijackal parents, partners, or exes, is that S/HE IS NOT EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE!

I belong to many groups on Facebook, and this is a common complaint there, too.

"I'm attentive, collaborative, loving, nurture, and even compliant, and my partner just doesn't give anything back!"

Early on in a relationship that seems to be going somewhere good, you're affected by limerence. Dr. Marni talks about this in today's episode, that warm feeling when you're falling love, in lust, or infatuation. She says it's like being on cocaine. (I'm sure she's guessing about that, right? lol)

So, if you're ready to hear the truth about how you may have found yourself with an emotionally unavailable partner, you'll be fascinated by today's topic.

Oh, dear! Are you responding by becoming emotionally unavailable yourself? We talk about why you don't want to fall into that trap....and, why it doesn't work, either!

>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!

GUEST: DR. MARNI FEUERMAN

Marni Feuerman, MSW, PsyD, is a licensed psychotherapist, author, speaker and workshop presenter. As a nationally recognized relationship expert, she is a sought-after media contributor and syndicated freelance writer with content on numerous online media outlets including HuffoPo, Time, Marth Stewart Weddings, MSN and more. 

Dr. Marni's debut self-help book is titled, Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships (published by New World Library). She wrote this book for women who struggle with repetitive and unhealthy relationship patterns with men. 

Dr. Marni lives in the South Florida area with her husband and twin daughters. She maintains a private practice where she works extensively with distressed couples and individuals with relationship struggles. In her spare time, she enjoys playing with her rescue dogs, cooking, yoga, and traveling.  

FREE GIFT FROM DR. MARNI:

Watch her webinar, Why You Keep Repeating Unhealthy Relationship Patterns" and get her bonus checklist, "Is He Emotionally Available," when you SUBSCRIBE.

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• How to tell if someone is emotionally available...although, I'm pretty sure you know, right?
• Is it actually increasing? Are more people emotionally unavailable now?
• How we define 'emotional unavailability".
• The impact of having emotionally unavailable parents
• Tips for dealing with an emotionally unavailable partner
• How limerence affects our judgment in choosing a partner
• and...why some women choose to stay in secret relationships with married men!

CONTACT INFO FOR DR. MARNI FEUERMAN

Website:: TheTalkingSolution.com

Podcasts:

LinkedIn: @MarniFeuerman

Facebook: @DrMarniFeuerman

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Twitter: @DrMarniFeuerman

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Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

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Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

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FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®

If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.

#emotionallyunavailable #emotionalneeds #drmarnifeuerman #emotionallyimmature

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

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What allows for growth of intimacy? You want an emotionally rich, intimate relationship. You'll never find it--in any healthy fashion--if you're needy. That's why you need to do your own work first!

You know I talk about "doing your own work" first frequently. It's because you need to be the healthiest you can be to attract--and sustain--a healthy, emotionally intimate relationship. You simply cannot do it if you are needy! (If you want to work on this, I can help.)

Today, I'm talking once again with Rabbi Manis Friedman. He brought such great information to you in an episode with him a few months ago, and I could hardly wait to talk with him again to bring you more good stuff!

You have real needs, and one of those is for love. That's the way it is with this being human business!

But, it's the "not needy" part of you that can attract a healthy, emotionally available partner!

Why does Rabbi Mannis Friedman talk so much about humility? What does it mean? What does humility in a relationship look like? It is an important ingredient in an emotionally intimate relationship. He'll tell you why today.

Do you believe--and understand--what Rabbi Friedman says?

"I'll never fix myself at your expense."

You'll want to understand that fully, and he explains it well today.

>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!

GUEST: RABBI MANIS FRIEDMAN, author of The Joy of Intimacy, and celebrated host of the cable television series, Torah Forum with Manis Friedman, syndicated throughout North America

World-renowned author, counselor, lecturer, and philosopher, Rabbi Manis Friedman uses ancient wisdom and modern wit as he captivates audiences around the country and the world. Over 150,000 copies of his provocative yet entertaining tapes, both audio and video, have been sold.

His first book, Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore? was widely praised by the media and is now in its fourth printing. He has been featured internationally and has appeared on more than 50 television and radio talk shows.

Rabbi Friedman has helped thousands with his deep understanding of the human spirit and simplified common sense tips for our daily lives. A father of 14, and a great-grandfather, Rabbi Friedman spends his time traveling the world, lecturing on the topic of relationships. He says,

"Intimacy is an art."

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• The difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy relationship
• What is real emotional growth
• Why you are wise to work at releasing the needy part of you
• The big difference between "being needy" and "needing to share" my life with another
• Why it's important to do no harm
• Why the focus has to be on making your partner's life better
• Rabbi Friedman's three steps that shift businesses into growth

CONTACT INFO FOR RABBI MANIS FRIEDMAN

Website:: TheJoyofIntimacy.com

Podcasts:

LinkedIn: @Manis-Friedman

Facebook: @Manis-Friedman

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Twitter: @Manis-Friedman

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CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE 

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!

Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®

If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.

#intimacy #emotionalintimacy #dontbeneedy #tooneedy #RabbiManisFriedman #joyofintimacy

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

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TOO MUCH BULLYING! TOO MANY TEEN SUICIDES!

This needs to stop, and we need to do whatever we can to stop bullying now, and intervene with bullying victims immediately.

Did you ever imagine that the internet would be so full of stories of bullying? And, then, did you think that the next thing would be too many teen suicides? Yes, it's a natural progression, but what a nasty one!

And, hey, parents! Are you teaching your children not to bully others?

Are you validating your child's self-worth at home, so they go out in the world with the self-esteem that allows them to interact in healthy ways?

Do you give your children your attention for who they are and not just for what they do?

That's your job!

Here's a few startling facts:

• Suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people
• Bully victims are between 2 to 9 times more likely to consider suicide than non-victims
• A study in Britain found that at least half of suicides among young people are related to bullying
• According to statistics reported by ABC News, nearly 30 percent of students are either bullies or victims of bullying
• In the US, ABC News reported that 160,000 kids stay home from school every day because of fear of bullying

http://www.bullyingstatistics.org/content/bullying-and-suicide.html

>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!

Today, Dr. Aaron Smith is here to help our audience learn how to help students in school from building relationships to changing their current situation from becoming a statistic to becoming a story.

GUEST: DR. AARON L. SMITH, Best-selling Author of Awakening Your STEM School, and of the upcoming, BLANK CHECK: Recreating America's Broken Schools

Dr. Aaron L. Smith is an expert with STEM and workplace readiness and is known around the world for his work. He assists schools, company leaders and communities to work together to develop and sustain a pipeline of competent and job-ready employees. 

A 2008 graduate of Old Dominion University with a Doctorate in Educational Leadership, Dr. Aaron L. Smith has over two decades of experience in the classroom as a mathematics teacher and administrator. 

Aaron has developed a passion for workplace readiness and STEM where he has shared his knowledge as an adjunct professor at Old Dominion University and Christopher Newport University. He and his work has been referenced over 30 times from Catcat to Teachthought.com. 

A Best-Selling Author of “Awakening Your STEM School”, and a future book coming out in 2019, “Blank Check: Recreating America’s Broken Schools.” 

Dr. Aaron L. Smith is now an expert consultant for school districts, leading communities, and individual schools to transform their educational systems to initiates, grow & sustain the creation of a pipeline of workforce-ready graduates thanks to his five-point STEMS initiative.

Aaron’s passion for workplace readiness and STEM has been shared on the local, state and national levels. He’s received the WHRO Technology Administrator Award and the Crystal Star Award from the National Dropout Prevention Center. Besides the numerous accolades, Dr. Aaron L. Smith’s proudest achievements are being married to wife and being a dad to his three kids who challenge him to reach for the stars every day.

Aaron has also been directly responsible for his former school receiving many workplace readiness related honors from becoming a PRIME School recognized by the Society of Manufactured Engineers Education Foundation to the awarding of over three-quarters of a million dollars in grants in just over four years. 

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• How to help kids who are experiencing a tough time in school
• How to help kids feel more comfortable to talk with you as an educator
• What to do and say when teens pretend to be disinterested in everything...especially in what you have to say
• Ways to improve parent-teacher conferences to talk about difficult things
• What to do when trying to help students in critical situations
• How to know when, as an educator, you need to call in an agency like Child Protective Services
• How to capture the interest of students in STEM subjects: science, technology, engineering, and mathematics and how Dr. Smith's school did a masterful job

CONTACT INFO FOR DR. AARON SMITH

Website:: https://WR.Solutions

Podcasts:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/WorkplaceReadinessSolutions

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Sworkplacereadinesssolutions

Instagram: 

Twitter: https://twitter.com/WorkReadiness

YouTube: 

CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

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Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

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FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®

If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.

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#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #self-love

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Escaping the Hijackal Trap! That's the name of one of my books, AND the focus of today's interview with Stephani Roberts.

First, you have to recognize you're in a #Hijackal trap, right? Then, you have to move on to find your best next steps.

Today, Stephani Roberts shares her journey from first recognition that she was in an emotionally abusive relationship--and the red flags she originally overlooked--to the realization that for the emotional safety of herself and her girls, she needed to remove herself from the toxic relationship. Brave move! And, not without it's perils!

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Where are you in this process? You might have tucked away your recognition of red flags to press on to get what you thought was possible in a relationship. Now's the time to wake up and smell the herbal tea on that one, and this conversation is a great place to start.

Extricating yourself from a #Hijackal is best done one step at a time, unless there is physical abuse, or sexual abuse going on. In those cases, call the police, and immediately get that on the record. But, if you can safely take your time, take your next best steps, and prepare to leave, that's the better approach. It gives you time to empower yourself, try new strategies, and make better decisions about the life you want to create once you've left.

Today's guest shares her journey beyond a #Hijackal ex, and how she definitely made lemonade that continues to sweeten her life.

GUEST: STEPHANI ROBERTS, The Authority Amplifier for Content Creators

Steph Roberts is an avid lifelong learner and spiritual seeker. She's a podcast host shining the spotlight on women freeing themselves from emotional abuse and finding a way to heal and thrive on their terms. She's a Digital Content Strategist who works with experts, coaches, and spiritual healers to Amplify their Authority online via podcast guesting and strategic repurposing of content.

"Jump off the content hamster wheel and make your content work for you by standing out from the noise," she says.

Stephani fell in love with a #Hijackal, a relentlessly difficult, toxic person. She talks about her journey to recognition of the toxicity of the relationship, and what she went through to remove herself and her girls in the most systematic way possible. Lots to learn there! She then went on to purposefully create a healthy, happy, joyful life for them. She shares what that took with you today.

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• The great healing benefits of listening to podcasts
• Tips for recovering from a toxic relationship
• Dating red flags you might miss
• How a toxic relationship affects your friendships ...and, it's not good!
• Importance of careful planning to leave a toxic relationship , leaving a #Hijackal

CONTACT INFO FOR STEPHANI ROBERTS

Website:: https://StephaniRoberts.com

Podcasts: https://AudaciousMamas.com and https://TheAudaciousLife.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephaniroberts/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephGetsSocial/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/audaciouslife/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/StephGetsSocial

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/stephaniroberts/?sub_confirmation=1

CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE 

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!

Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®

If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.

#stephaniroberts #audaciouslife #audaciousmamas #lifeaftertoxicrelationships #digitalcontent

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healingenergy #self-love

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

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Any chance you have "stuff?" Or, whatever you prefer to call it!

Maybe, you've had it for awhile, and you're attached to it.

Maybe, you are always saying you're going to deal with it.

Maybe, you just inherited it from parents who have passed.

Maybe, it's a HUGE energy leak, and every time you think about it, you want to run away!

Maybe, today is the day it will all make sense how to go about deciding what stays and what goes, what you keep and what you release.

>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page! <<<<<<<<

Clutter is something we hear about often, and read about. Somehow, this information is slanted to make it sound like clutter is always a bad thing. No judgment here! We've all heard about the positives of creative clutter, too.

What's clear, though, is that you want to have consciously decided what to keep in your possession because you want to have consciously chosen to do so. Today's interview will shed a whole lot of light on clearing the clutter, and knowing exactly what you have, and what you want to keep.

Of course, there are many kinds of clutter: physical clutter, emotional clutter, mental clutter, financial clutter, and so on. Today, of course, I talk a little about emotional clutter, and why that's just as important--if not more so in my not so humble opinion...lol--to deal with. Most often, emotional and physical clutter reflect one another, and that's a fine reason for taking the time to listen to how to reduce both today.

GUEST: Sharon McRill, Owner and President of The Betty Brigade.a personal assistance and concierge company working from Ann Arbor, Michigan

Sharon McRill likes to help busy people get things done. The Better Brigade helps busy professionals with moving, home staging, organizing, and handy-man services--with virtually anything clients need done but have no time to do themselves.

Laid off from a corporate marketing job in 2003, Sharon turned joblessness into an opportunity in the midst of an ailing economy. As a busy professional herself, she'd fantasized about having a personal assistant. She has grown her team to ten members, including professionals in organizing, home project management, and staging.

What an engaging and enlightening--in every sense of the word--conversation. Here are the highlights:

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• What leads you to have an emotional relationship with your stuff?
• Why is it so hard to let go of some things?
• Is it necessary to let go of stuff?
• What is helpful to replace the thoughts, "What if I need it again?" or "It's still good?"
• What about hoarding? Why does it happen and can you help?
• What should you do with treasures from another era that you don't really like?
• And, what business papers do I HAVE TO KEEP and for how long?

CONNECT WITH SHARON MCRILL:

Website: https://www.BettyBrigade.com

Twitter: https://twitter.com/BettyBrigade

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheBettyBrigade/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharonmcrill/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonmcrill/

CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE 

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!

Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®

If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.

#clearmyclutter #emotionalclutter #makemovingeasier #dealingwithstuff #sharonmcrill #bettybrigade

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healingenergy #self-love

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder 

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