The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Learn how to orgasm powerfully and effortlessly in this podcast. If you currently struggle to orgasm when masturbating or during sex, then listen and learn what you need to do and what you need to STOP doing to start having powerful orgasms with ZERO effort. It's surprisingly easy.

Quick Note: This is the first episode of a five part series where you will learn how to have powerful orgasms when masturbating and during sex.

Show Highlights

2.10 - Why having strong and effortless orgasms all comes down to being comfortable.

2.40 - A simple guide to masturbating and reaching orgasm easily.

3.55 - Learn why your clit is the most important part of your vagina when masturbating and trying to orgasm during sex.

7.25 - Why what happens between your ears is the most important part of having an orgasm.

8.05 - Why stress is a major issue that can prevent you from reaching orgasm AND how to overcome it.

9.45 - How to stop worrying about climaxing and start enjoying yourself...which will actually help you to reach orgasm.

11.00 - Discover how to get rid of performance pressure during sex.

12.40 - Learn why body confidence can impact your ability to orgasm and discover the solution.

13.30 - Sexual shame: This can act like a weight on your mind. Learn how to deal with it.

14.20 - The importance of experimentation and exploration: I discuss the importance of knowing your body and why this is vital for learning how to orgasm alone and during sex.

Learn more on how to orgasm here: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-orgasm

Forrest Andrews joins me on the show today to discuss how prostate massage can lead to powerful 'Super' orgasms AND improve your man's health. If you are squeamish or nervous at the idea of exploring your man's backdoor, then you'll love this episode as Forrest explains everything you need to know, from hygiene to why your man may just adore it.

Show Highlights

1.35 - Learn how Forrest started working for a sex toy company.

5.55 - Learn exactly what the prostate is and where to find it.

7.25 - Why prostate massage does NOT make your man gay.

11.15 - Why prostate orgasms (aka the Super 'O') are STRONGER than regular orgasms.

13.45 - How to suggest prostate play to your man.

17.10 - Vital things you must consider before you try any anal play with your man (these also apply to you).

19.15 - The reason why prostate play and anal sex can be painful and how to make it pleasurable for your man.

21.55 - One last thing to properly prepare your man (this also applies to you if you enjoy anal sex).

24.30 - The positions that make prostate play easiest (side lying, doggy style, lying on your back).

27.45 - We discuss why some people do and some people don't experience the Super 'O' AND how to train yourself to experience it.

34.05 - What happens between your ears is the most important part to having an orgasm, whether you are a man OR a woman. Forrest explains why.

36.40 - Women don't have a prostate gland. Instead, they have something else that leads to powerful orgasms AND squirting. Forrest explains why.

Show Notes

The sites mentioned by Forrest

Visit the Aneros website here: https://www.aneros.com/

Visit the Anereos wiki here: http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Main_Page

Visit the Aneros forum here: https://www.aneros.com/community/

The final episode in the 3 part series to give your man a perfect blow job. Over three episodes, you'll going to learn 37, techniques and tactics so powerful, that your man will become completely obsessed with you.

If you haven't already listened to the first two episodes in the series (episode #6 contains the first 11 techniques & episode #7 contains the next 12 techniques), then I'd advise you to go and download them right now from iTunes or the Bad Girl's Bible website.

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Show Highlights 1.05 Blow Job Tip 24 - Why Variation is vital to making sure your man NEVER gets bored.

2.00 Tip 25 - How to make every blow job a special occasion, WITHOUT much effort from you.

3.30 Tip 26 - Discover why WHERE you give your man oral sex is so important. Plus, I'm going to teach you a bunch of great places where you can give your man oral that will blow his mind.

5.15 Tip 27 - Why you should keep it simple and "small" when you first go down on him. It makes everything easier for you and keeps it constantly exciting for your man.

7.05 Tip 28 - How to use BDSM during oral sex. You'll learn how to dominate your man when giving him a blow job AND how to be submissive.

9.35 Tip 29 - A crazy-simple trick so that you can use the same blow job techniques every single time you go down on your man, but make the experience feel completely different for him.

12.55 Tip 30 - A very important aspect of his orgasm that you MUST understand to make sure he climaxes with maximum pleasure.

16.35 Tip 31 - Why finishing your blow job with your hands can be incredibly enjoyable for him and easier for you.

18.15 Tip 32 - Learn a number of different ways to finish your man off. This one is perfect if you like your man finishing by cumming on your body.

20.25 Tip 33 - Learn what to do when your man cums in your mouth. Bonus: Learn how to make swallowing his load easier and more enjoyable.

23.20 Tip 34 - Advanced: Some really kinky things you can do with his cum.

27.20 Tip 35 - Why making eye contact with your man as he climaxes is red hot!

28.40 Tip 36 - How to know when your man is about to orgasm and blow his load.

30.05 Tip 37 - I finish up reinforcing why great communication is VITAL for a great blow job, incredible sex life and satisfying relationship.

Don't forget, this is part three of the 37 tips to give your man a perfect blow job. Get part one and part two by subscribing on iTunes.

Find out more about the Blow Job Bible book at http://badgirlsbible.com/bible

This is part two of my three part series on how to give your man a perfect blow job. Throughout the series, you're going to learn a total of 37 blow tips, techniques and tactics that are so powerful, they will literally turn your man into your own personal stalker.

If you haven't already listened to the first episode in the series (the first 11 techniques), then I'd advise you to go and download that right now from iTunes or the Bad Girl's Bible website.

Show Highlights

1.05 Blow Job Tip 12 - An easy-to-perform blow job technique that delivers a huge amount of pleasure.

2.55 Tip 13 - Learn how to suck your man. That's right, I'm talking about how to suck him. Learn why so many women misunderstand this technique and how to do it right.

4.00 Tip 14 - "Awesome Sauce" - Discover how to change the texture of your blow job so that it feels completely new to your man and tastes great. It's an effortless way of changing up your blow job routine.

8.10 Tip 15 - Why you absolutely must use your hands AND more importantly, how to use them to double the amount of stimulation you give him.

11.30 Tip 16 - How to rub, caress and massage your man's testicles during your blowjob so that it's pleasurable and NOT painful.

14.55 Tip 17 - How to make eye contact confidently and effortlessly during your blow job to make it more intimate and intense.

16.50 Tip 18 - A counter-intuitive trick to build your man up to orgasm. He will literally beg you for more when you use this trick on him.

18.40 Tip 19 - Why taking the initiative is both easy and powerful. Your man will thank you for it. Listen and learn how to do it.

21.00 Tip 20 - Discover how to talk dirty BEFORE and during your blow job to build his anticipation and ultimately make it more enjoyable for both of you.

25.05 Tip 21 - A more advanced BJ technique to allow your man to take control and dominate you. Perfect if you enjoy being submissive.

26.25 Tip 22 - Why slowing down can make your blow job more enjoyable. This also has the added benefit of making oral sex easier for you.

28.10 Tip 23 - Why "wetter is better"

Don't forget, this is part two of the 37 tips to give your man a perfect blow job. Get part one and part two by subscribing on iTunes.

Find out more about the Blow Job Bible book at http://badgirlsbible.com/bible

This is the oral sex episode subscribers have been begging me for. Today, I'm opening up my vault of secret blow job tips to give you my most powerful ways to please your man with your mouth. Yes, some of these fellatio tips are outrageous and possibly a little too "out there" for some, but if do you use them, you'll be VERY happy with the results.

Show Highlights

2.00 Blow Job Tip 1 - The importance of effective communication if you want to give your man a great blow job.

3.20 Tip 2 - The "golden technique. This is the most important and most powerful blow job technique you can ever use.

5.20 Tip 3 - How to build your confidence when going down on your man.

8.35 Tip 4 - The right kind of foreplay to use to slowly build up the tension and excitement before you go down on him. This will drive him wild and have him begging you for oral sex.

12.10 Tip 5 - How to smoothly build up to giving him a blow job.

16.05 Tip 6 - Stimulating the most sensitive spot on his penis. This alone will make him orgasm very quickly.

17.50 Tip 7 - A bunch of things you can do with your lips to increase his pleasure.

19.25 Tip 8 - A powerful but simple way to tease him mid-blow job.

21.00 Tip 9 - What you should be doing with your tongue. I teach you a number of different techniques and ways to lick your man's penis. I also include an advanced anal technique that drives some men wild.

24.45 Tip 10 - Why "wetter is better."

25.10 Tip 11 - 5 separate techniques to stimulate the top of his penis.

Remember this is just part one of the 37 tips to give your man a perfect blow job. Tune in over the next two weeks for parts two and three.

Find out more about the Blow Job Bible book at http://badgirlsbible.com/bible

Today sex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk answers listeners sex questions on BDSM, pegging, jealously in relationships, the porn "problem" and many more. If you got questions you'd like answered anonymously by a sex expert in a future episode, please send your question to [email protected].

Show Highlights

2.35 - How to deal with a man that is "jealous" of your vibrator.

6.25 - How to approach using a strapon with your man and why strapon sex is both healthy and fun.

8.20 - What you need to know about anal lube. Why silcone based lube is best for anal.

8.50 - The do's and don'ts of mixing alcohol and sex.

9.40 - Why guys are afraid of pegging.

14.05 - Dr. Kat talks about the problem with lower testosterone rates in men and why it's happening to so many guys.

16.20 - We discuss how porn causes problems in relationships AND why porn can sometimes be a good thing in your relationship.

23.10 - Practical tips on how to explore BDSM with your man.

24.50 - Why the submissive is always in control.

25.50 - Safe words and the traffic light system.

27.10 - Why BDSM doesn't have to be "hardcore" but can be a little bit more subtle and light.

32.50 - Practical tips for moving past infidelity.

More About Dr. Kat Van Kirk

You can find Dr. Kat at http://drkat.com or on social media:
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drkatvankirk
Twitter - https://twitter.com/DrKatSexChat
Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/drkatvk/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/drkatvk/
Tumblr - http://drkatsexchat.tumblr.com/

In today's episode, I talk to family and marriage therapist Dr. Corey Allen on the three dangerous mistakes that can affect your relationship. We dive deep and discuss how to prevent all three from becoming a major problem: money, sex and the in-laws/kids.

Show Highlights

5.00 - Why it's not money that causes problems, it's the meaning attached to money.

6.28 - What to do when you and your partner view money in a very different way so it doesn't become a problem.

10.30 - Why you don't have to agree with everything your partner says or does.

12.40 - Why committed relationships are designed to help us grow up and how we need to grow through problems we face with our partner.

17.55 - Possibly the most important question you can ask yourself before you get married or if you are already married: "Would you want to be married to you?" and then applying this question to specific aspects of your marriage.

18.20 - What to do if you and your partner have different sex drives.

21.20 - The mistake guys make who have a higher sex drive than their wife and how it turns her off.

24.30 - Being honest with your partner and it's amazing benefits.

28.25 - We talk about when making a compromise in your relationship is not really a compromise at all.

31.30 - The issue with the in-laws.

33.45 - Why having a great relationship only requires common sense, but the problem is that we attach emotion to relationship...which make things complicated.

36.50 - Why recognizing that your emotions are going to cloud your judgement in your relationship.

38.00 - The main issue to avoid with your in-laws.

Show Notes

You can find Corey at http://simplemarriage.net and pick up a copy of Naked Marriage at simplemarriage.net/naked-marriage You can also listen to his podcast at https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sexy-marriage-radio/id472302597?mt=2

In this episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, I talk to swinger Cooper S. Beckett from the Life in the Swingset podcast. Cooper explains in detail what swinging is, the steps a couple can take to safely explore it, how it can help your relationship (or hinder it!) and more.

Show Highlights

1.25 - how he got into the swinging scene.
4.55 Why monogamy, NOT SWINGING is the right choice for many people.
6.05 - The traditional definition of swinging
6.50 - What polyamory and why it's different.
8.15 - Why swinging and polyamory is definitely not cheating
9.45 - The problem with life's unspoken "social contract."
10.35 - How to start talking to your partner about swinging in a smooth way.
18.10 - Why non-monogamy has improved Cooper's communication skills.
18.35 - How to start your swinging journey with your partner and make sure it's a great experience, and why some couples have a bad first experience.
21.55 - Tips on how to spot and avoid fakers when using swinging sites
23.30 - How to make your first swinger date easy going and successfull.
25.10 - What to do if one partner has reservations.
28.40 - Dealing with jealousy.
33.55 - What to do if swinging doesn't work for you
43.55 - One of the most important benefits of non-monogamy

Show Notes
Kinsey scale - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

Cassidy - https://www.kasidie.com - the swinger site Cooper mentioned on the show

More On Cooper
If you want to get in touch with Cooper, you can find him online at:

http://coopersbeckett.com/
https://twitter.com/coopersbeckett?lang=en
https://www.facebook.com/coopersbeckett/
https://www.instagram.com/coopersbeckett/

Cooper's Podcast
Podcast website: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/
Podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-on-swingset-swinging/id354627460?mt=2

Cooper's Collection of Swinging Podcasts:
swingset.fm

Cooper's 1st book
http://coopersbeckett.com/books/my-life-on-the-swingset-adventures-in-swinging-polyamory/

Cooper's 2nd book
http://coopersbeckett.com/books/a-life-less-monogamous-a-novel-by-cooper-s-beckett/

Special Discount for Listeners
Cooper kindly gave me a discount code that you can use to get 10% off anything you purchase on his site, coopersbeckett.com. Just enter the word bible in the offer code section and that 10% discount will be applied to your order.

Sex Therapist Dr. Lori Buckley is my guest on the podcast today. We talk about everything from how to more easily reach orgasm during sex to getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas in the bedroom. You'll also learn why a "judgy" attitude in the bedroom is a bad idea and why "asking" for sex is even worse.

Show Highlights

1.35 Lori's background and how she became a sex therapist.
5.10 We discuss why some women struggle to reach orgasm during sex.
9.20 Why getting "out of your head" is vital for reaching orgasm more easily.
11.40 A simple technique to help you orgasm during sex.
15.30 Tips for getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas.
20.00 Simple steps for sharing your sexual fantasies and fetishes with your man.
23.10 Why a "judgy" attitude is going to kill your sex life.
28.30 An easy trick for getting in the mood, IF you are in a long term relationship.
29.15 Why asking for sex is a BAD idea.
35.30 Why women sometimes need their man to be more assertive.
36.20 Why many gifts don't need to cost a cent but still have a massive impact.
37.00 We talk about the deep importance of sexual tension in your relationship.

You can learn more about Dr. Lori Buckley at https://www.drloribuckley.com/ and listen to her podcast here on iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/looking-for-love/id1146640020).

Welcome to the very first episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast. In this episode, I interview Scot McKay from X&Y Communications and the Mountain Top Podcast. We talk about a range of issues to keep your relationship and sex life red hot and satisfying.

Show Highlights

3.45 Avoiding Netflix and chill

4.50 Why finding your best friend is more important than finding someone hot

6.35 The importance of communication

7.05 Why relationships aren't hard work if you're with the right person

10.45 The mistake people make when they try to spice things up

12.25 We talk about the value of arguing the right way

14.05 Why Scot and Emily give each other space to be angry and frustrated.

17.25 One of the most important things about sex.

19.15 why sex shouldn't be so serious

21.00 how men can bring more masculine energy and women can bring more feminine energy to their relationship

27.45 We talk about how people carry negative experiences from previous relationships into their current relationship and why it's dangerous

30.50 We talk about the major reasons why relationships fall apart

35.45 Scot's tips on how to improve your sex life.

You can learn more about Scot at http://deservewhatyouwant.com and http://mountaintoppodcast.com