NEGOTIATEx

In this episode of the NEGOTIATEx podcast, Lou Carter continues the conversation with Steve Alban Tineo, CEO of Assertive Group. They discuss the conferences Steve offers for individuals seeking to improve their conflict management skills. Steve emphasizes the importance of authenticity and creating a space where people can openly be themselves. He also talks about the role of emotional intelligence in negotiations and conflict resolution, highlighting the need to understand the emotional interests behind rational arguments. Additionally, Steve shares his experiences with Vision for Peace Initiative, which aims to support children and vulnerable individuals. He also discusses his program on swimming with sharks, which focuses on overcoming fear and building resilience. The episode concludes with Steve’s advice on becoming more effective in negotiations, emphasizing the importance of humility, resilience, and taking action.

In this episode of the NEGOTIATEx podcast, Adrian Goodwin discusses her book “Twins In The City.” The book is aimed at fostering understanding for the diverse roles of law enforcement through children’s literature. The narrative showcases officers from various backgrounds engaging in community events to inspire children and educate parents. Adrian’s twins, featured in the book, have greatly embraced their roles, enhancing their public speaking skills and confidence. Adrian emphasizes the educational aspect of her work, highlighting inclusivity within law enforcement and her dedication to changing perceptions through positive engagement and empowerment. The episode also touches on Adrian’s negotiation strategies, emphasizing compassion, active listening, and a collaborative mindset in both professional and personal settings.

In this episode of the NEGOTIATEx podcast, we explore the remarkable journey and insights of Adrian Goodwin, a 19-year NYPD veteran, educator, and acclaimed author. From her formative years in an urban environment to her transition from teaching to law enforcement, Adrian’s story is one of resilience and dedication. She discusses the challenges and opportunities of being a black woman in the NYPD, emphasizing the importance of empathy, mentorship, and diversity in building effective teams. Through recounting a crisis negotiation and her approach to family disputes, Adrian showcases the universal applicability of negotiation skills. She also shares her strategies for self-regulation in high-stakes situations and the integration of real-world experiences into her academic teaching, highlighting the significance of verbal judo in conflict resolution.

In this episode of the NEGOTIATEx podcast, Rich Ramsey explores the essential role of trust in enriching personal and professional interactions. The speakers discuss trust as a cyclical force that grows through collaboration, highlighting its components: competence, sincerity, reliability, and care. They propose extending trust proactively and addressing violations constructively. The episode also covers strategies for dealing with reliability issues, the significance of autonomy in leadership development, and the impact of equine therapy on veterans through Warrior Mission Ranch. It concludes with personal reflections on applying leadership principles at home and the importance of vulnerability in building authentic connections, drawing inspiration from Bruce Springsteen.

In this episode of the NEGOTIATEx podcast we delve into the essence of authentic leadership with retired US Army Lieutenant Colonel Rich Ramsey. Rich is an experienced coach with a rich background in military and leadership development. Firstly, Rich highlights leadership as fundamentally human interactions, advocating for the importance of connecting genuinely with others and the willingness to “drop the armor” of defensiveness and ego to foster real connections. Through examples ranging from military engagements to corporate settings, Rich illustrates how dropping defensive barriers and reassessing narratives can lead to transformative leadership outcomes. He also emphasizes the role of empathy, trust, and open communication in achieving organizational success and personal growth.

In this episode of the NEGOTIATEx podcast, John Lowry delves into the critical role of empathy in negotiations. He illustrates how a deep understanding of the other party’s needs leads to creative and mutually beneficial solutions, as exemplified by a mediation case involving a Top Gun pilot. The discussion also covers the distinction between “learn-it-all” and “know-it-all” negotiators, highlighting the importance of a learning mindset for effective negotiation. Additionally, John explores strategic flexibility using game theory, the significance of preparation in negotiation outcomes, and lessons from Captain Sully’s “Miracle on the Hudson” for decision-making and problem-solving. Finally, he advises young professionals on developing negotiation skills, emphasizing its value in career advancement.

In this NEGOTIATEx podcast episode, Dr. John Lowry, president of Lowry Group, a negotiation expert and author, shares insights from his professional journey and his book “Negotiation Made Simple.” John discusses the key negotiation principles mentioned in his book, including self-management, balancing competition with cooperation, strategic first moves, empathy, and mutual satisfaction to help the listeners become better negotiators. Additionally, John advocates recognizing daily interactions as negotiation opportunities and addresses the negotiation styles of introverts and extroverts. The episode also covers strategies for dealing with uncertainty and bad faith in negotiations, highlighting the importance of strategic thinking and adaptability.

In this episode of the NEGOTIATEx podcast, Maarten van Rossum analyzes gender dynamics in workplace negotiations, noting women’s strengths like empathy and creativity and challenges such as self-diminishment due to societal norms. He advocates systemic changes over adapting to current negotiation cultures. Various negotiation tactics, the importance of relationship-building, and the impact of AI and social media are also discussed in this episode. Maarten reflects on his negotiation experiences, emphasizing understanding stakeholders, joint successes, and avoiding boasting. He outlines the negotiation cycle, stressing the need for clarity, documentation, and cooperative implementation, and offers advice for aspiring negotiators on training, self-reflection, and seeking feedback.

In this episode of the NEGOTIATEx podcast, Maarten van Rossum, an expert in Dutch and international legal frameworks, shares his journey from diplomat to master negotiator. He discusses the importance of understanding human behavior and creativity in high-level negotiations, drawing on his experiences advising Dutch leaders to corporate roles at Heineken. Additionally, Maarten emphasizes the value of a “corporate diplomat” approach in negotiations, highlighting the need for personalized strategies and deep research in cross-cultural settings. He advocates for engaging diverse stakeholder views and prioritizing negotiation over legal battles, offering insights into effective corporate and diplomatic negotiation tactics.