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There are signs that reveal that you're dealing with a person who has been recruited by perhaps your narcissist to play the dysfunctional role of a flying monkey!  Narcissists and those who play the dysfunctional role of flying monkey are not like twins, rather they're like first cousins.  They both often have different hidden agendas to have you hoovered back into a narcissistic relationship.  However, narcissists often recruit people who share similiar vices and personality types to play the dysfunctional role of flying monkey.

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How does the narcissist seem to go the extra mile to discard others?  It might seem as if he or she is going over time on the demon time.  It's not a case of he or she is just not into you.  Usually, the discard masks the narcissist's shame and guilt cycle.  He or she might attempt to hoover sometime after discarding the relationship, but if they wanted the connection in the first place, then hoover attempts would not be necessary.  Don't get caught up or lost in the sauce of narcissistic relationships  and the narcissist's guilt shame cycle because the signs of narcissism were overlooked.  Keep thriving forward!

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How does one recognize the perfect polarity that occurs in narcissistic relationships?  First, know who and what you're dealing with.  Secondly, take off the rose-colored glasses which will help clarify contradictions, falsehood and manipulative tactics that fuel narcissistic relationships.  Lastly, accept that you're perhaps the one who is changing, while facing the reality that the narcissist might not ever change.  It is when the narcissist wants all of the smoke and turns up on the demon time, that others who are emotionally involved might come to realize that as much as they're capable of love the narcissist is capable of contempt.  One person is taking and the other is giving too much!  One needs to learn how to love self and the other needs to learn how to love others.  Peace, harmony and love are not possible in such a hostile environment, but the perfect polarity in the narcissist relationship seems to flourish.

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How to contemplate forgiveness of narcissistic relationships and narcissist can be challenging, overwhelming, triggering and can seem impossible to achieve.  There are steps that are often overlooked when contemplating forgiveness of narcissistic relationships and those with a narcissistic personality who may have caused injury, especially when anger and pain are experienced.  You can give yourself the gift of forgiveness first, instead of pressuring yourself to give it to the narcissist, perhaps sacrificing yourself in the process.  

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How to stop focusing on your narcissist and thrive forward.  It's about time perhaps that you accept that you're outgrowing the narcissist and changing, while your narcissist might not ever change.  There are several strategies that you can apply that can help you to break the habit of focusing too many resources, time and energy on your narcissist.  It starts in the mind and not the behind.... keep thriving forward!

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It's time to stop thinking of your narcissist.  When you think of the shenanigans that narcissists pull it can perhaps influence you to feel some kind of way.  Narcissistic personality types can become some of the coldest in the game of narcissism.  It's about time perhaps that you accept that you're outgrowing the narcissist and changing, while your narcissist might not ever change.  Remember that your life has purpose!  

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How does one make peace with making the decision to go no contact from narcissistic family?  For those who have been selected as scapegoat within his or her dysfunctional family are often traumatized by the experience.  When he or she has chosen to go no contact it is usually the last resort to thriving forward while healing past narcissistic abuse.  It is less than likely that such dysfunctional families with a narcissist or a cluster B personality heading it, will seek healing, closure or stability, due to the refusal to take responsibility to dysfunctional behaviors and the lack of empathy from the cluster B personality.  Other family members tend to be emotionally bullied into submission in order to feed the false self-image of the narcissist and or some family member(s) who might have other cluster B personality types.

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There's no such thing as a fair bargain in narcissistic relationships.  A narcissist might want your attention and energy all while bowing down before them 24/7, but what do you get in return?  Some people seem to practically give up their life if not their souls in order to please their narcissist.  Therefore, your happiness could be compromised.  Narcissistic personality does not usually appreciate others for becoming loyal in a relationship.  Narcissists just don't seem to play fair with others.  There's no such thing as a fair bargain in narcissistic relationships.  Your overall well-being, health and happiness could be compromised as a result of dealing with the shenanigans of narcissistic personality types. It might be time to take careful consideration of what you are actually bargaining for in narcissistic relationships. 

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How narcissistic personality uses primal drives to control.  Perhaps it's time to focus on the love connection, which starts with you.  We all have primal drives, but when you choose to function from your heart space it can ignite and align every aspect of your essence.  Beware of using too much of your focus, time, energy and resources on narcissistic relationships.

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It's okay to admit that there's just some things that you don't like about your narcissist.  Most people can name at least three things that they don't like about someone that they love, like, respect, or care about.  Let's face it, narcissistic behavior often includes being extremely selfish without regard for others.  There are a few secrets that you must come to know about narcissists in order to discontinue feeling guilty for not perhaps liking them and some of their behaviors.

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