Swinger University - A Sexy and Educational Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

In this episode, we explore the benefits of moaning during sex and foreplay. Moaning is a natural sound that can create a sense of intimacy and vulnerability between partners, transport us to a place of heightened sensory pleasure, and drop us into our core sexual energy. It's also a form of communication that tells your partner what feels good and what doesn't, resulting in a more pleasurable experience for both partners. However, faking a moan can set up miscommunication in the bedroom, so it's essential to own your moans and express your pleasure authentically. If you're feeling self-conscious about moaning, we provide some tips to help you gain confidence in your self-expression, including starting off with some mood lighting, talking to your partner ahead of time, incorporating different elements during foreplay, and practicing in front of the mirror. Tune in to discover how moaning can create a more pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.

• Sound = Important Role in Life
• Form of communication
• Faking = wrong road map!
• Tips for those feeling self-conscious

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Do you want to know how to turn your sex life around in 10 days?!  We talk to our very sexy guest, Layla London, from The Curious Girl Diaries who invites you as a voyeur into her diary of sexual encounters.  Layla also opens up about her past experiences with crappy encounters and offers valuable insights on how to turn things around and create great sexual experiences through a vetting process. You will also want to hear how we discuss shame in the lifestyle and the importance of addressing it a social setting. 

Be sure to check out the time stamps below:

Layla's Sex Party Experience [0:32:37]

Phoebe Fingered it Out with a Woman [1:03:03]

How to Address Being Shamed in a Social Setting [0:44:34]

TAGS (Episode):  sexualfreedom sexpositive saynotoshame sexualconfidence swingeruniversity curiousdiaries sexualpotential normalizingsexuality enm cnm openrelationship

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Do you want to know how to turn your sex life around in 10 days?!  We talk to our very sexy guest, Layla London, from The Curious Girl Diaries who invites you as a voyeur into her diary of sexual encounters.  Layla also opens up about her past experiences with crappy encounters and offers valuable insights on how to turn things around and create great sexual experiences through a vetting process. You will also want to hear how we discuss shame in the lifestyle and the importance of addressing it a social setting. 

Be sure to check out the time stamps below:

Layla's Sex Party Experience [0:32:37]

Phoebe Fingered it Out with a Woman [1:03:03]

How to Address Being Shamed in a Social Setting [0:44:34]

TAGS (Episode):  sexualfreedom sexpositive saynotoshame sexualconfidence swingeruniversity curiousdiaries sexualpotential normalizingsexuality enm cnm openrelationship

GUEST LINKS:

https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com

https://www.instagram.com/the_curiousgirldiaries/

https://www.facebook.com/TheCuriousGirlLayla

https://www.tumblr.com/blog/thecuriousgirl1

https://twitter.com/thecurious_girl

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Compersion is learning to grow through other feelings, in order to get to that one. Join us as we speak with the actors and play writes from "Compersion". Nik and Mik use their autobiographical stories to create an intimate and steamy theatrical experience.

 "Compersion" is an adult-only play that celebrates a healthy lifestyle in ethical nonmonogamy, where the characters explore real-life scenarios and participate in erotic intimacy scenes. 

The guests get to enjoy a meet and greet with the cast and crew, and the  opportunity to participate in the play, making it a truly interactive and immersive experience. For those who are curious about swinging, "Compersion" provides a real-life look into what one might expect in a swinger event or encounter.

 GUEST BIO:

Nikki began her performing career with a dance-in-education company touring Australia before further training at Broadway Dance Studios, New York. On her return she ran the company for another 10 years whilst appearing in theatre, film and television. She works as a youth theatre director, specializing in disability arts and ASD, and is a social advocate for cultural diversity and recidivism projects with theatre companies and local government organizations. 

Mik is a Doctor of cultural anthropology, an actor, award-winning director, published playwright, and has toured in the UK, USA and Australia. In 2016 he broadcast the first ‘livestream performance’ from an Adelaide Fringe, based on his MPhil about an autistic theatre company for which he has presented findings at the Royal Anthropological Institute (UK). He is a freelance Creative Director for governments, commercial enterprises, and arts festivals, creating large-scale immersive art events.

SHOW NOTES: 

• About The Play 
• The Concept - How it Began
• 20 year Marriage - Getting Started - Experiences
• Deciding on Content
• Real Sex? - Yes!
• Audience Participation/Engagement
• Reciting Lines from the Play
• Tour Dates
• How to Support - Patreon

 LINKS:

Website:  www.steamyromantics.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SteamyRomantics

IG: @steamyromantics  https://www.instagram.com/steamyromantics/

TW: @steamyromantics  https://twitter.com/steamyromantics

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• SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group
• YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe
• Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial
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Compersion is learning to grow through other feelings, in order to get to that one. Join us as we speak with the actors and play writes from "Compersion". Nik and Mik use their autobiographical stories to create an intimate and steamy theatrical experience.

 "Compersion" is an adult-only play that celebrates a healthy lifestyle in ethical nonmonogamy, where the characters explore real-life scenarios and participate in erotic intimacy scenes. 

The guests get to enjoy a meet and greet with the cast and crew, and the  opportunity to participate in the play, making it a truly interactive and immersive experience. For those who are curious about swinging, "Compersion" provides a real-life look into what one might expect in a swinger event or encounter.

 GUEST BIO:

Nikki began her performing career with a dance-in-education company touring Australia before further training at Broadway Dance Studios, New York. On her return she ran the company for another 10 years whilst appearing in theatre, film and television. She works as a youth theatre director, specializing in disability arts and ASD, and is a social advocate for cultural diversity and recidivism projects with theatre companies and local government organizations. 

Mik is a Doctor of cultural anthropology, an actor, award-winning director, published playwright, and has toured in the UK, USA and Australia. In 2016 he broadcast the first ‘livestream performance’ from an Adelaide Fringe, based on his MPhil about an autistic theatre company for which he has presented findings at the Royal Anthropological Institute (UK). He is a freelance Creative Director for governments, commercial enterprises, and arts festivals, creating large-scale immersive art events.

SHOW NOTES: 

• About The Play 
• The Concept - How it Began
• 20 year Marriage - Getting Started - Experiences
• Deciding on Content
• Real Sex? - Yes!
• Audience Participation/Engagement
• Reciting Lines from the Play
• Tour Dates
• How to Support - Patreon

 LINKS:

Website:  www.steamyromantics.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SteamyRomantics

IG: @steamyromantics  https://www.instagram.com/steamyromantics/

TW: @steamyromantics  https://twitter.com/steamyromantics

Our Links:

• Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content
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• YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe
• Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial
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In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of BDSM and Dominance and Submission (DS) relationships with Dr. Tiffany "K". We explore the basics of BDSM and the different practices that fall under this umbrella term, including kink and fetish.
You will find out how to get started in BDSM and hear us emphasize the need for open and honest communication (even if it's uncomfortable) when discovering new things together. 
Join us in this episode as we learn and explore more about the world of BDSM, Dominance and Submission relationships, and hear some sexy experiences from your favorite hot couple, Ed and Phoebe.  Sex nerds unite!

SHOW NOTES:  

• 00:00:24:23        Who is Dr. Tiffany "K"?
• 00:02:43:20        What is BDSM? 
• 00:06:59:10        Dominance and Submission A Relationship Practice
• 00:10:59:18        50 Shades of Grey - How bad was it?
• 00:15:53:08        DS Maintaining Balance in a Relationship
• 00:21:12:07        Establishing Healthy Dynamics
• 00:23:14:07        Kink, BDSM, Fetish... the Venn Diagram of it all
• 00:24:21:01        Is the Swing Lifestyle a Fetish?
• 00:25:25:23        Safety and Consent
• 00:30:30:17        Scene Dynamics - How Does it Work?
• 00:32:54:19        How Often Do Playtimes Happen?
• 00:34:26:10        Jealousy in DS
• 00:35:46:15        Communication is so Important
• 00:37:07:12        Rituals
• 00:39:58:09        Flogging Rituals, and a Hot Couple Ed & Phoebe Watched
• 00:42:26:11        Communication in the Lifestyle
• 00:44:58:09        Drinking and Partying in Both Lifestyles
• 00:47:39:03        BDSM, Psychology, Knife Play
• 00:50:45:05        Practice and Progression in DS and Fetish play
• 00:51:17:06        Uncomfortable Communication...or is it?
• 00:53:39:01        Discovering New Things Together
• 00:54:13:16     Ideas on How to Get Started in DS
• 01:00:11:22        Sex Nerds Unite
• 01:00:37:20        How Can Dr. K help You?
• 01:02:53:09        Wrap Up

Our Links:

• Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content
• Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication
• SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group
• YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe
• Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial
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• Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts
• Instagram - Come see our updates
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In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of BDSM and Dominance and Submission (DS) relationships with Dr. Tiffany "K". We explore the basics of BDSM and the different practices that fall under this umbrella term, including kink and fetish.
You will find out how to get started in BDSM and hear us emphasize the need for open and honest communication (even if it's uncomfortable) when discovering new things together. 
Join us in this episode as we learn and explore more about the world of BDSM, Dominance and Submission relationships, and hear some sexy experiences from your favorite hot couple, Ed and Phoebe.  Sex nerds unite!

SHOW NOTES:  

• 00:00:24:23        Who is Dr. Tiffany "K"?
• 00:02:43:20        What is BDSM? 
• 00:06:59:10        Dominance and Submission A Relationship Practice
• 00:10:59:18        50 Shades of Grey - How bad was it?
• 00:15:53:08        DS Maintaining Balance in a Relationship
• 00:21:12:07        Establishing Healthy Dynamics
• 00:23:14:07        Kink, BDSM, Fetish... the Venn Diagram of it all
• 00:24:21:01        Is the Swing Lifestyle a Fetish?
• 00:25:25:23        Safety and Consent
• 00:30:30:17        Scene Dynamics - How Does it Work?
• 00:32:54:19        How Often Do Playtimes Happen?
• 00:34:26:10        Jealousy in DS
• 00:35:46:15        Communication is so Important
• 00:37:07:12        Rituals
• 00:39:58:09        Flogging Rituals, and a Hot Couple Ed & Phoebe Watched
• 00:42:26:11        Communication in the Lifestyle
• 00:44:58:09        Drinking and Partying in Both Lifestyles
• 00:47:39:03        BDSM, Psychology, Knife Play
• 00:50:45:05        Practice and Progression in DS and Fetish play
• 00:51:17:06        Uncomfortable Communication...or is it?
• 00:53:39:01        Discovering New Things Together
• 00:54:13:16     Ideas on How to Get Started in DS
• 01:00:11:22        Sex Nerds Unite
• 01:00:37:20        How Can Dr. K help You?
• 01:02:53:09        Wrap Up

Our Links:

• Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content
• Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication
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• YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe
• Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial
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Welcome to this episode of our podcast where we have the pleasure of interviewing Jackie Golob, a sex therapist, coach, and holistic healer. Jackie is the proud owner of Shameless Therapy & Consulting Services, LLC, a practice that incorporates sexual self-care into therapy and coaching sessions with individuals and couples.

 During our conversation, we delve into the world of sex therapy and explore the stigma surrounding therapy for couples. Jackie provides us with insights into the common anxiety and shame that couples may experience around sex and how they can overcome these issues. She also shares tips on how to deal with jealousy in relationships, emphasizing that comprehension is key.

 We discuss the party vs. connection lifestyle and how shame can affect a person's playtime. Jackie provides tips on how to overcome body image issues and encourages self-discovery through compassion for oneself. We also explore ways that couples can improve their communication and how emotional maturity plays a role in one's lifestyle.

 As a sex therapist, Jackie places importance on understanding pleasure zones and encourages exploring oneself and trying kink. She has also created a sexual self-help deck of cards with questions to enhance one's sexual self-care.

 Don't forget to check out Jackie's website, http://shamelesstherapy.org, where you can sign up for her newsletter and receive freebies. Follow her on YouTube @shamelessjackie and Instagram @sextherapistjackie for more insightful content. Jackie also made a  sexual self-care deck with questions to be able to use as a reflection tool to enhance your sexual self-care!

 Join us in this fascinating conversation and discover how to live your best, shameless, and sexy life!

 Show Notes:

• Intro
• Who is Jackie Golob?
• Which Couples Are Seeking Sex Therapy
• Stigma Around Therapy
• Couples Coaching
• Anxiety and Shame Around Sex
• Jealousy
• Jackie's Tips for Jealousy, Comprehension is Key!
• Lifestyle: Party vs. Connection
• How Shame Can Affect Your Play Time
• Shame Around Sex
• Tips for Overcoming Body Image Issues
• Compassion for Self, and Self-discovery
• How Can Couples Be Better Communicators
• Lifestyle and Emotional Maturity
• Pleasure Zones!
• Exploring yourself, and trying Kink
• Sexual Self-Help Cards
• Wrap Up

Our Links:

• Patreon - We need your help to grow - plus you get sexy bonus and behind the scenes content
• YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe
• Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial
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• Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts
• Instagram - Come see our updates
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Welcome to this episode of our podcast where we have the pleasure of interviewing Jackie Golob, a sex therapist, coach, and holistic healer. Jackie is the proud owner of Shameless Therapy & Consulting Services, LLC, a practice that incorporates sexual self-care into therapy and coaching sessions with individuals and couples.

 During our conversation, we delve into the world of sex therapy and explore the stigma surrounding therapy for couples. Jackie provides us with insights into the common anxiety and shame that couples may experience around sex and how they can overcome these issues. She also shares tips on how to deal with jealousy in relationships, emphasizing that comprehension is key.

 We discuss the party vs. connection lifestyle and how shame can affect a person's playtime. Jackie provides tips on how to overcome body image issues and encourages self-discovery through compassion for oneself. We also explore ways that couples can improve their communication and how emotional maturity plays a role in one's lifestyle.

 As a sex therapist, Jackie places importance on understanding pleasure zones and encourages exploring oneself and trying kink. She has also created a sexual self-help deck of cards with questions to enhance one's sexual self-care.

 Don't forget to check out Jackie's website, http://shamelesstherapy.org, where you can sign up for her newsletter and receive freebies. Follow her on YouTube @shamelessjackie and Instagram @sextherapistjackie for more insightful content. Jackie also made a  sexual self-care deck with questions to be able to use as a reflection tool to enhance your sexual self-care!

 Join us in this fascinating conversation and discover how to live your best, shameless, and sexy life!

 Show Notes:

• Intro
• Who is Jackie Golob?
• Which Couples Are Seeking Sex Therapy
• Stigma Around Therapy
• Couples Coaching
• Anxiety and Shame Around Sex
• Jealousy
• Jackie's Tips for Jealousy, Comprehension is Key!
• Lifestyle: Party vs. Connection
• How Shame Can Affect Your Play Time
• Shame Around Sex
• Tips for Overcoming Body Image Issues
• Compassion for Self, and Self-discovery
• How Can Couples Be Better Communicators
• Lifestyle and Emotional Maturity
• Pleasure Zones!
• Exploring yourself, and trying Kink
• Sexual Self-Help Cards
• Wrap Up

Our Links:

• Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content
• Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication
• SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group
• YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe
• Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial
• SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️
• Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts
• Instagram - Come see our updates
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Many people aren't experiencing the pleasure they want in the bedroom, simply because they don't know how to ask for it.  Do you ask for pleasure?  How do you ask for it?  You might be surprised by some of the simple techniques we discovered from Renée Yvonne, a Sex Therapy Coach from www.thegensexologist.com

SHOW NOTES:

• 00:00 - Start
• 00:02 - Introduction - Renee Yvonne
• 01:15 - Renée's Work
• 01:36 - How to ask for what you want in bed
• 03:06 - Having a voice in the bedroom
• 04:48 - Asking for what you want
• 05:36 - When to have the conversation
• 06:09 - Yes, No... Maybe
• 07:30 - Pick a playtime out of a bowl
• 08:41 - Planning a "date" night
• 10:10 - Why do women feel like they can't ask for what they want?
• 13:18 - Orgasm gap and porn
• 14:43 - How can men support women better?
• 17:40 - Women explore your sexual zones
• 20:49 - Quiet quitting
• 22:00 - Great workshops for couples
• 26:46 - Wrap up

Renée's Links:

Renée Yvonne:  www.thegensexologist.com

Genexypodcast:  https://anchor.fm/gensexypodcast

Renée Yvonne IG:  @thegensexologist

How to Tell Them What You Want When in Bed…

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