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The Self-Hype Podcast

by CHOBO Studios

Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.

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Episodes

How To Better Understand Men with Elise Michaels

40m · Published 23 May 11:00

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In Episode 15 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," host Eli Vasquez welcomes Elise Michaels, a trauma-informed men's coach dedicated to helping men navigate their emotional landscapes and heal from subconscious trauma. Elise discusses the challenges men face in acknowledging and expressing their emotions, emphasizing the need for healing both father and mother wounds. She explores how societal expectations often stifle men’s emotional expressions, advocating for emotional vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness. Through this episode, Elise offers insights into breaking the cycle of emotional suppression to build healthier relationships and improve self-image, providing valuable strategies for personal growth and genuine connections.

00:00 Intro 02:26 Exploring Emotional Vulnerability and Healing 04:10 Deep Dive into Men's Emotional Health and Healing 08:04 Understanding Attachment Styles and Emotional Wounds 10:59 Navigating Relationships and Emotional Availability 14:14 Addressing Childhood Wounds and Their Impact 17:28 Confronting Avoidance and Healing from Toxic Relationships 19:55 Unpacking Toxic Relationships: It Takes Two to Tango 22:15 Breaking Down Emotional Vulnerability in Men 24:07 The Power of Emotional Regulation and Self-Work 26:47 Strategies for Women: Fostering Emotional Openness 32:30 The Impact of Men's Mental Health on Relationships 35:51 Closing Thoughts: The Future of Men's Mental Health 38:46 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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How To Know You're In A Situationship And What To Do About It

34m · Published 16 May 11:00
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In Episode 14 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli tackles the challenges of being in a situationship or "rent-a-girlfriend" arrangement, where a man strings a woman along without committing to a serious relationship. Eli delves into the psychological impacts of being in these grey zones, discussing how to identify if you're being treated as a placeholder and what to do about it. He emphasizes the importance of self-respect, setting clear boundaries, and recognizing one's worth to break free from toxic cycles and move towards healthier, fulfilling relationships.

00:00 Cold open 00:32 Intro 01:09 Eli's Personal Journey 05:02 What is a 'Rent-a-Girlfriend'? 10:04 The Reality of Situationships 17:28 Gameboy Girlfriends 26:44 Moving On 33:09 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?

27m · Published 09 May 11:00
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In Episode 13 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," host Eli Vasquez dives into the delicate topic of infidelity, asking the provocative question, "Is once a cheater always a cheater?" This episode explores the psychology of cheating, discussing both the perspective of the cheater and the experiences of those who have been cheated on. Eli dissects the reasons behind cheating, its impact on relationships, and the crucial decisions individuals need to make when confronted with infidelity. He provides insights into why some might choose to stay in a relationship and the emotional and psychological dynamics at play.

00:00 Cold open 00:28 Intro 01:13 Check-in: Bridesmaid Adventure 02:38 Understanding Cheaters 06:55 From Hurt to Healing 14:07 Forgiveness and Moving Forward 22:59 Self-Worth & Future Possibilities 26:34 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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Navigating Love in the Digital Age: The Dating App Survival Guide

27m · Published 02 May 11:00
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In Episode 12 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli delves into the world of dating apps, sharing candid advice and personal experiences to help listeners navigate this digital dating era. He discusses the superficial nature of app swiping and the mindset differences between men and women when using these platforms. Eli offers practical tips for crafting an authentic and engaging dating profile that truly reflects the individual's personality and desires. He emphasizes that dating apps are just tools, not solutions, and advises listeners not to place their self-worth in app interactions but to use them wisely as part of a broader dating strategy. Additionally, Eli underscores the importance of taking breaks from apps if feeling overwhelmed and maintaining a positive, self-respecting attitude throughout the dating process.

00:16 Intro: The Dating App Survival Guide 01:49 Navigating the Digital Dating Era 08:02 How Men Use Dating Apps 10:08 Crafting the Perfect Dating Profile 14:37 Take A Break If You Need To! 25:29 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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How To Regain Your Power After Betrayal with Personal Development Coach Katelynn Smith

39m · Published 25 Apr 11:00
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In Episode 11 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vasquez hosts Katelynn Smith, a personal development coach specializing in trauma healing. Katelynn shares her journey from experiencing profound loss and betrayal to finding healing and purpose. She recounts the pain of losing a child and dealing with her ex-husband's betrayal, and how these experiences led her to help others navigate their healing journeys. Eli and Katelynn discuss the importance of self-worth, forgiveness, and moving beyond victimhood, offering listeners insights into transforming pain into empowerment. The episode emphasizes authenticity, the power of sharing one's story, and the importance of self-reflection and growth following life’s hardest challenges.

00:16 Intro 00:45 Katelynn's Journey: From Loss to Healing 03:00 The Power of Sharing Your Story 06:12 Embracing Forgiveness and Self-Worth in the Healing Process 14:26 The Impact of Authenticity in Coaching and Personal Growth 17:44 The Mutual Benefit of Coaching 23:50 The Power of Authenticity in Healing 24:50 Embracing Emotions and Finding Your Passion 32:22 The Challenge of Authentic Connections 33:24 Finding Community in a Digital Age 35:06 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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Texting Red Flags: Signs They're Not That Into You

27m · Published 18 Apr 11:00
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In Episode 10 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli tackles the nuanced world of texting and dating, providing insight into behaviors that signify interest or disinterest. He navigates through the anxious phases of early dating, highlighting the importance of recognizing red flags in text communication and advocating for a more controlled and self-aware approach to new relationships. Eli encourages listeners to maintain their self-worth, question uncertain texting patterns, and not settle for less than they deserve. He emphasizes the significance of clear communication, respect, and setting boundaries, ensuring that personal values align with dating experiences.

00:19 Intro 00:27 Diving Into Texting and Dating Dynamics 02:17 Texting Etiquette in Early Dating 05:54 Decoding Texting Behavior: Interest vs. Disinterest 09:38 Understanding Time and Effort in Texting 12:51 Navigating Physical Intentions and Respect in Texting 19:30 Anxiety & Texting 26:01 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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The Myth of Diet Culture with Food Relationship Coach Samira Port

42m · Published 11 Apr 11:00
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In Episode 9 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli chats with Food Relationship Coach, Samira Port, about establishing a healthy relationship with food and self-love. Samira recounts her struggle with binge eating and restrictive dieting, and how she transitioned into coaching others to nurture a balanced, guilt-free approach to eating. They debunk common diet culture myths, emphasizing the importance of listening to one’s body and breaking free from harmful dietary cycles to lead a more satisfied life. Through their conversation, Samira and Eli underscore the significance of treating the relationship with food as one would a romantic relationship, focusing on communication, respect, and mutual understanding.

00:18 Intro 00:38 Meet Samira Port: From Model to Food Relationship Coach 03:08 Samira's Personal Battle with Food and Self-Image 08:24 Breaking the Cycle: Samira's Turning Point and Healing Journey 10:41 The Misconceptions of Diet Culture and Embracing Food Freedom 18:45 Samira's Mission: Helping Others Heal and Love Themselves 34:02 The Impact of Healing: Transformative Stories from Samira's Coaching 38:26 Connecting with Samira and Embracing Your Food Relationship Journey 40:23 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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The Ultimate Green Flags To Look For In A Partner

33m · Published 04 Apr 11:00
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In Episode 8 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli shares the key green flags to look for ina partner. He encourages listeners to adopt a mindset of abundance, to focus on the positive traits that indicate a healthy, supportive partner, and to understand their own worth and what they genuinely seek in relationships. Eli emphasizes self-awareness, emotional regulation, and a growth mindset as essential green flags in potential partners, advocating for intentional dating and the importance of knowing one's own value and aspirations. Additionally, he touches on setting boundaries and ensuring they align with personal goals and histories, guiding listeners towards meaningful, fulfilling connections that honor their ancestors and their own journey.

01:40 Intro: Green Flags To Look For In A Partner 05:24 Self-Awareness: The Ultimate Green Flag in Relationships 12:25 Emotional Regulation 15:57 Intentional Dating 17:25 Embracing a Growth Mindset in Relationships 18:23 Self-Reflection & Personal Development Is The KEY To Healthy Relationships 20:10 Setting Boundaries & Enforcing Them 27:27 Connection Between Low Self-Esteem & Dating 31:11 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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How To Handle Rejection Like A Boss

27m · Published 28 Mar 11:00
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In Episode 7 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli addresses the topics of ghosting, rejection, and the personal growth that can arise from navigating the dating scene. He encourages listeners to view rejection not as a setback but as an integral part of the dating process, advocating for self-love and the creation of a fulfilling life outside of romantic endeavors. Lastly, Eli emphasizes the importance of self-reflection following rejection, recognizing one's value, and using breathwork for emotional regulation.

00:00 Intro

00:30 Navigating the Complexities of Dating and Rejection

01:21 The Role of Self-Love and Healing in Overcoming Rejection

02:53 Impact of Unhealed Wounds on Dating Dynamics

05:46 Self-Reflection and Building a Fulfilling Life

09:22 Embracing Rejection as a Part of Personal Growth

17:55 Importance of a Fulfilling Life Beyond Dating

22:36 Tools for Emotional Regulation

25:40 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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Manifesting the Life & Relationships You Want with Fumi AKA Mahamaven

50m · Published 21 Mar 11:00
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In Episode 6 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," host Eli Vasquez welcomes life coach & content creator Fumi AKA Mahamaven to chat about self-discovery, relationship authenticity, and personal evolution. Discussing the significance of living one's truth, they delve into the introspection required for successful relationships. Furthermore, the conversation explores misconceptions surrounding dating, highlights the essential role of self-awareness, and underscores the importance of establishing clear boundaries, all aimed at steering listeners towards more authentic connections and fulfilling life.

00:00 Intro

01:00 Welcome Fumi AKA Mahamaven!

01:37 Fumi's Journey: From Law to Love Coaching

09:32 The Birth of Mahamaven: Fumi's Leap into Content Creation

14:32 Love and Relationships on Social Media

17:34 Real Talk on Dating: Observations and Advice

24:25 Misinterpretation of Content

27:21 Self-Improvement and Coaching

29:02 Manifestation, Self-Worth, and Attraction

30:57 Navigating Misogyny in Content Creation

33:46 Importance of Self-Awareness and Healing

37:52 Embracing Self-Reflection in Relationships

40:45 The Art of Coexisting: Picking Your Battles

47:52 Outro

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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.

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The Self-Hype Podcast has 28 episodes in total of non- explicit content. Total playtime is 16:44:02. The language of the podcast is English. This podcast has been added on December 18th 2022. It might contain more episodes than the ones shown here. It was last updated on May 28th, 2024 21:10.

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