You Are Not Broken
by Kelly Casperson, MDEmpowering women (and the partners who love them) to live their best mid lives. Combining the power of mind-work, body-science and relationships, I joyously smash the societal barriers that are keeping us from living our best intimate lives. Whether you are young or past menopause, single or in a long-term relationship, it is never too late or too early to realize YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. With humor, candor and ease, I break down the stories that we have been told about being sexual beings, to help us play, and normalize our intimacy and health. Nothing in this podcast is personal medical advice, of course.
Copyright: Kelly Casperson, MD
Episodes
236. Prolapse - Surgical and Non Surgical Options
53m · Published236 – Prolapse – Surgical and Non-Surgical Options
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Dr. Sonya Ephraim, MD, FACOG, FPMRS, is a urogynecologist and the founder of Allure Pelvic Wellness and Aesthetic Gynecology in Deer Park, Illinois, outside of Chicago. She talks about how she decided to go back to do a fellowship in female pelvic medicine.
In this episode, we talk a lot about prolapse and touch on-
· What is pelvic organ prolapse?
· Why prolapse needs a rebranding – so much shame
· Risk factors for prolapse
· What are the signs and symptoms?
· Our tips for treating constipation
· Prolapse risk goes up after menopause – we discuss the likely role of hormones and decreased muscle strength.
· The impact of prolapse on those suffering
· Why we hate calling it “bladder prolapse”
· How the bladder can be affected by vaginal prolapse and what may and may not improve
· How do we know if we have prolapse
· How do we know if we should treat prolapse
· Risk of de novo stress urinary incontinence when prolapse is fixed, either with pessary or surgery
· What is a pessary and what are the risks of a pessary.
· Can you be sexually active with prolapse?
· The role of pelvic floor physical therapy and prolapse.
· Surgical treatment options:
o One size does not fit all.
o Obliterative surgery – colpocliesis
o Hysteropexy vs. hysterectomy
o Minimally invasive options – suture or mesh based (sacrocolpopexy) procedures
o New treatment options (EnPlace) benefits and data
o The cervix as a sexual organ for some people and the consideration of cervix/uterine preservation in prolapse surgery.
· Modern prolapse repair is safe, effective and recovery is not too stressful for most women.
· Post surgery instructions and rehab – vaginal estrogen and pelvic floor physical therapy
· The risk of recurrent prolapse
· When to consider adding a sling to your prolapse procedure
· Just because someone or something said you have prolapse, doesn’t mean you need surgery
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My previous Prolapse episodes
21 – pelvic organ prolapse master class
138 – February Live – Hormones, prolapse, pelvic floor PT and more
161 – “I Just need to put something in my vagina”, Prolapse, and how PT helps
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48m · PublishedMenopause Society President – Dr. Lisa Larkin
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Dr. Larkin Trained at Yale and the University of Chicago, Dr. Lisa Larkin is a women’s health internist, menopause, sexual medicine, and medical breast expert and a women’s health physician and consumer educator who has been practicing in both academics and private practice for over 30 years. She is Founder and CEO of Ms.Medicine, a national health care organization dedicated to advancing women’s health on a broader scale and Founder and CEO of Concierge Medicine of Cincinnati, an Internal Medicine and Women’s Health practice where she continues to practice clinically. Dr. Larkin is the President of the Menopause Society.
Why did NAMS (North American Menopause Society) rebrand to Menopause Society?
“We can’t pigeon hole women’s health into the Ob/Gyns” – Dr. Casperson
“Women’s health doesn’t belong to any one specialty” – Dr. Larkin
Dr. Larkin shares her story about not being trained in menopause and her career journey and how she understands the WHI study.
We talk about fezolinetant (Veozah) – the new non-hormonal medication for hot flashes.
One of Dr. Larkin’s favorite thing to talk about is breast cancer risk assessment and prevention so we discuss this.
We define dense breasts.
Why alcohol just doesn’t make sense in midlife
Dr. Larkin shares her personal journey with menopause symptoms and sexual dysfunction. And shares non-hormonal options. And what you can do without seeing your doctor.
The role of confidence in midlife - lack of confidence in what to do and how Menopause Society/her clinic/my podcast can help - and what we see when women get confident and educated in midlife.
What excites Dr. Larkin about menopause and the women’s health space
https://www.menopause.org/
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42m · PublishedDr. Sonia Wright interviews me on genitourinary syndrome of menopause - AKA: The Senile Vagina and The Super Penis
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The history of getting to the name “genitourinary syndrome of menopause”
GSM happens not just in menopause
The labia goes away after menopause unless hormones are supplies
Recurrent urinary tract infections are in the top 10 reasons women go to the doctor
Why you get more urinary tract infections after menopause
When we treat erectile dysfunction are we treating the partner?
We talk about sex ed for adults and what I would put in a curriculum.
The role of vaginal estrogen
Where to get cheap vaginal estrogen
ACOG statement on vaginal estrogen after breast cancer
“estrogen is not trying to kill you”
The FDA black box warning on vaginal estrogen is wrong
Can I just use lube?
Issues with sensitive skin when starting vaginal estrogen
Why I don’t use a loading dose with vaginal estrogen
When to consider adding testosterone to your vulva or DHEA to your vagina
How to talk to your health care provider about genitourinary syndrome of menopause and ask to try a prescription product.
Vaginal estrogen can help overactive bladder and urge leakage
The myth of needing to finish your periods prior to starting vaginal estrogen
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45m · PublishedBooty Play and Butt Stuff
I am back with Jenn Mason! Check out our older episodes on toys and more #45, #49 and #52
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The more people are empowered in their sexuality, hopefully this will decrease the bad things.
What is booty play and let’s define what it is and what the body parts are.
How do people get started with butt stuff?
No one gets extra points for going up in size with booty play.
Tips for starting to explore.
Consent and doing stuff because my partner wants me to.
The importance of communication.
Is booty play guaranteed pain?
Pain is a sign to slow down or stop.
How to people prepare for receptive booty play.
How messy is booty play in real life?
Lube lube lube
Is it okay to ejaculate in the rectum?
Rules for booty play
Do you need to use condoms?
What anuses are supposed to look like.
Is there a lube that is specific for booty play?
Anal play safety
Does booty play make me gay?
How to talk to your health care provider about anal sex.
If someone wants anal sex does that mean he is weird?
Can receptive anal play mess up my body?
Does the penis have to be a certain type of hard for penetrative play?
Why does this not go well sometimes?
“No one gets a trophy for getting a penis into a butt” – Jenn Mason
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21m · Published231. “Low Libido is Not a Problem to Me” - Caffyn Jesse
43m · Published“Low Libido is Not a Problem to Me” - Caffyn Jesse
Caffyn Jesse is a queer elder, sacred intimate, teacher and writer who revels in the power and pleasures of the erotic. They are a renowned teacher of sex, intimacy and healing trauma with pleasure.
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She tells us how she went through her journey at age 40 and found her erotic energy
"You are not broken" is the name and theme of my podcast – She tells us how her work relates to this?
In your book, “Science for Sexual Happiness” she says – “Can you imagine a way of being sexual that is energized and playful, passionate and flowing? “ - I think for so many people it is a hell no.
How they would work with pain with penetrative sex.
How they would work with low libido.
We have so much experience consenting to things we don’t really want” – Caffyn Jesse
Tips for being stuck in a sexual rut?
How can erotic massage change our experience of sex?
In your book “Intimacy Educator: teaching through touch” – you have a whole chapter on touching a vulva owner. Tips.
How they deal with erectile dysfunction
What do you do on your retreats?
Science for Sexual Happiness by Caffyn Jesse
Intimacy Educator: Teaching Through Touch by Caffyn Jesse
https://ecstaticbelonging.com/
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50m · PublishedNormalizing Sex - Talking With a Sacred Intimate Practitioner
How did he choose this career path – or did it choose him? From the military to tech to surrogate partner.
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What is the difference between Surrogate Partner Therapy and Sexological Bodywork?
His approach uses the theory that sexual energy manifests in your body, not your mind – tips for people to access and be comfortable with their body.
Tips for communicating.
He discusses what a sacred intimate is.
How he works with trauma.
His definition of sex. The top reason men and women seek out his work.
How do people stay intimately connected when life gets busy?
So many disempowered people – where do you start?
What is consensual non-monogamy and what does he wish people knew about it?
What he wishes doctors and therapists knew about his job?
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54m · PublishedSex Med Advocate and ISSWSH President - Sue Goldstein
Sue Goldstein is an AASECT certified sexuality educator and certified clinical research coordinator. She serves as clinical research manager and program coordinator for San Diego Sexual Medicine
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She is current president of ISSWSH (International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health)
Her story of your career in sexual education and sex med.
Pain associated with oral contraceptives.
There should never be pain with sexual activity.
We pick apart “doing menopause naturally”
We discuss PGAD Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder and the role of education for people and providers. Language matters.
We talk about menopause and pain with sex after menopause.
Is low sex drive the “tip of the iceberg” for testosterone?
We discuss testosterone, SHBG and bioavailable testosterone and explain how this works.
What is a vajay-jay? The importance of using correct words for our anatomy.
Why we love ISSWSH.
Why Sue hates the concept that “women are complicated”
The combo platter of aging PIV intimacy – we need to approach both partners to address the issues.
Sue shares her experience with HSDD
We discuss the issue with delayed ejaculation.
“The educated woman is the empowered woman” – Sue Goldstein
https://www.isswsh.org/
ISSWSH’s Education website https://www.prosayla.com/
Book about vulvas: Petals by Nick Karras
Sue’s Book: When Sex Isn’t Good https://amzn.to/3OKyMMk
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50m · Published227. Mojo and Empowerment with Deborah Kagan
49m · PublishedYou Are Not Broken has 294 episodes in total of non- explicit content. Total playtime is 174:36:57. The language of the podcast is English. This podcast has been added on February 22nd 2023. It might contain more episodes than the ones shown here. It was last updated on May 31st, 2024 20:13.