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Stop Drinking and Start Living

by Mary Wagstaff

Do you ever feel like you've out growing alcohol, that you are longing for a deeper connection to life? If alcohol is keeping you playing small and feels like the one area you just can't figure out, you are in the right place.  I'm a holistic alcohol coach who ended a 20-year relationship to alcohol without labels, counting days or ever making excuses. Now I help powerful women just like you eliminate their desire to drink on their own terms. In this podcast, we will explore the revolutionary approach of my proven five-shifts process that gets alcohol out of your way by breaking all of the rules, and the profound experience that it is to rediscover who you are on the other side of alcohol. I am so thrilled to be your guide. Welcome to your journey of awakening

Are you ready for the next step to release alcohol?  Uncover the five myths of quitting drinking and the Five shifts You need for lasting change in my free masterclass: 

 register here to learn more about how you can step into a life of greater meaning and connection: register here: https://marywagstaffcoach.com/free-class-sign-up

Copyright: © 2024 Stop Drinking and Start Living

Episodes

Embracing The Path Of The Priestess with Achintya Devi of Goddess Rising Mystery School Part 2 of 2

39m · Published 27 Dec 08:00

In this two part series you will meet the woman who has had the most profound impact on my personal journey of awakening beyond alcohol. This episode means everything to me. Join me for a crucial conversation with my personal spiritual Mentor, Achintya Devi, founder of the Goddess Rising Mystery School and Global Sisterhood, as we traverse what it means to embrace the sacred Priestess Path.

In this 2 part series you will:

  • understand what that missing something has been in your life.
  • Step into the shoes of the ancient feminine, reclaiming her power, and transforming your life.
  • Explore the potency of our emotions and the significance of our bodies in processing them?
  • Understand the concept of 'cyclical authenticity' - a potent tool for attuning to natural rhythms and breaking away from societal norms.
  • What it means to embrace the Priestess Path in this modern world and what role can you play in the current state of the world? How can you contribute to creating positive change?
  • Deeply understand the importance sisterhood in uplifting and supporting each other.

    Connect with Achintya and Goddess Rising Mystery School Here

The show today was sponsored by Mary Wagstaff Coaching. We have been an ad free show for four years, and continue to do so we need to grow as a community. Please pay it forward by subscribing, rating and leaving a review here on apple podcasts!
Personally sharing this show on your feed or with a friend is how we can help even more women go Beyond Alcohol. Thank you for your support!

Make 2024 your year!
Don't quit drinking this year, commit to living a new way, in alignment with your values and life intention.
5 weeks of live training, coaching, support and fun to kick off the new year for free!  Join HERE and get a head start on creating your life intention today.  


We are going to MEXICO!
Join us for a fully embodied, full awake, Women's retreat for the 2024 eclipse.
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision.
Learn more HERE about this trip of a life time and reach out with any questions.

Join the Free 40 Day Alcohol Transformation Challenge! 5 weeks of live training, coaching, fun and support! Join HERE.

Embracing The Path Of The Priestess with Achintya Devi of Goddess Rising Mystery School Part 1 of 2

43m · Published 20 Dec 08:00

What was the catalyst that truly began my journey beyond alcohol?

In this two part series on the podcast, you will meet the woman who has had the most profound impact on my personal journey of awakening to the divine feminine within. This episode is truly a full circle moment for me and I couldn't be more honored to share it with you.

Join me for a crucial conversation with my personal spiritual Mentor, Achintya Devi, founder of the Goddess Rising Mystery School and Global Sisterhood, as we traverse what it means to embrace the sacred Priestess Path.

In this 2 part series you will:

  • understand what that missing something has been in your life.
  • Step into the shoes of the ancient feminine, reclaiming her power, and transforming your life.
  • Explore the potency of our emotions and the significance of our bodies in processing them?
  • Understand the concept of 'cyclical authenticity' - a potent tool for attuning to natural rhythms and breaking away from societal norms.
  • What it means to embrace the Priestess Path in this modern world and what role can you play in the current state of the world? How can you contribute to creating positive change?
  • Deeply understand the importance sisterhood in uplifting and supporting each other.

    Connect with Achintya and Goddess Rising Mystery School Here

Make sure to tune in to part 2 next week!

The show today was sponsored by Mary Wagstaff Coaching. We have been an ad free show for four years, and continue to do so we need to grow as a community. Please pay it forward by subscribing, rating and leaving a review here on apple podcasts!
Personally sharing this show on your feed or with a friend is how we can help even more women go Beyond Alcohol. Thank you for your support!

Make 2024 your year!
Don't quit drinking this year, commit to living a new way, in alignment with your values and life intention.
5 weeks of live training, coaching, support and fun to kick off the new year for free!  Join HERE and get a head start on creating your life intention today.  


We are going to MEXICO!
Join us for a fully embodied, full awake, Women's retreat for the 2024 eclipse.
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision.
Learn more HERE about this trip of a life time and reach out with any questions.

Join the Free 40 Day Alcohol Transformation Challenge! 5 weeks of live training, coaching, fun and support! Join HERE.

Deep Knowing: A journey of self trust with Elizabeth

55m · Published 13 Dec 08:00

My client Elizabeth grew up in a family where alcohol felt like the sixth member. Today she shares her courageous journey beyond alcohol and the transformative power of self-love.

Your brain keeps telling you the transition is going to be so hard.

But "how" will I actually do it without always wanting alcohol?!?

Today is your day to get the inside scoop on the HOW first hand from a Woman who just did what she thought was impossible.

This podcast episode will truly change the way you think about what it takes to get alcohol out of your way forever without deprivation.

Elizabeth showed up for this work and our one on one time together with conviction and compassion. She truly EMBODIED the 5 shifts process of going beyond alcohol and it paid off big time.

  • Elizabeth explores her struggles with alcohol and the quest for a deeper connection to life.
  • How private coaching and the stop drinking start living course and private coaching played a crucial role in her journey beyond alcohol, providing valuable tools for self-validation and self-compassion.
  • How to navigate life without relying on alcohol.
  • Practical applications of how the coaching program tools created her biggest break throughs.
  • Gain insights into the upcoming 40-day challenge and the transformative potential of embracing new beliefs for personal growth.

Thank you Elizabeth for being and example of what's possible through reclaiming your birthrate of Natural Sobriety! You are truly inspiring, it's been such an honor to witness your transformation.

The truth is, everything Elizabeth experienced is available to you. The best part...it only took her four months of weekly coaching to get there! (compared to the YEARS of drinking and heart ache. It's a drop in the bucket.) If you've been on the fence, this episode the inspiration you need.

Claim your 1:1 spot here for 2024.

The show today was sponsored by Mary Wagstaff Coaching. We have been an ad free show for four years, and continue to do so we need to grow as a community. Please pay it forward by subscribing, rating and leaving a review here on apple podcasts!
Personally sharing this show on your feed or with a friend is how we can help even more women go Beyond Alcohol. Thank you for your support!

Make 2024 your year!
Don't quit drinking this year, commit to living a new way, in alignment with your values and life intention.
5 weeks of live training, coaching, support and fun to kick off the new year for free!  Join HERE and get a head start on creating your life intention today.  


We are going to MEXICO!
Join us for a fully embodied, full awake, Women's retreat for the 2024 eclipse.
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision.
Learn more HERE about this trip of a life time and reach out with any questions.

Join the Free 40 Day Alcohol Transformation Challenge! 5 weeks of live training, coaching, fun and support! Join HERE.

No Woman Left Behind

42m · Published 06 Dec 16:00

Are you ready to have your own back? Because that's what this journey requires. We look into the topic of self-care, self-validation, and self-compassion, and how pivotal these elements are in going beyond alcohol. Together, we will explore practical ways to show up for yourself in times of struggle and reduce the dependency on alcohol as a lifeline. The key to success in this endeavor is learning to appreciate all parts of yourself and nurturing a positive self-image.

I unveil our exciting new venture, the 40-day alcohol transformation challenge, which is all about setting a life intention, embracing a new way of living, and getting live coaching in a supportive community of women. It is free to register!

The final phase of our discussion is all about commitment and intention. Join our 40-day challenge and experience a shift in your conditioned habits and lifestyle. This is a chance to deepen your connection with yourself and nature, and to set a life intention that is in harmony with your values.

When you have infinite inspiration you don't need willpower.
Don't quit drinking this year, commit to living a new way, in alignment with your values and life intention.
5 weeks of live training, coaching, support and fun to kick off the new year for free!  Join HERE and get a head start on creating your life intention today.  

The show today was sponsored by Mary Wagstaff Coaching. We have been an ad free show for four years, and continue to do so we need to grow as a community. Please pay it forward by subscribing, rating and leaving a review here on apple podcasts!
Personally sharing this show on your feed or with a friend is how we can help even more women go Beyond Alcohol. Thank you for your support!


We are going to MEXICO!
Join us for a fully embodied, full awake, Women's retreat for the 2024 eclipse.
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision.
Learn more HERE about this trip of a life time and reach out with any questions.

Join the Free 40 Day Alcohol Transformation Challenge! 5 weeks of live training, coaching, fun and support! Join HERE.

Practicing Presence with Elena Brower

51m · Published 29 Nov 19:00

Today's show was a big moment for the show and me personally, as I had the high honor of having a sweet, heartfelt conversation with one of my role models and personal teacher, Elena Brower. Elena's insights on personal growth and creating a life that doesn't need alteration promise to leave you inspired and motivated.

She gives us an intimate look into her journey with zen Buddhism, her transformative hospice training experience, and her practices that have helped her release self criticism. As we traverse this path with Elena, you’ll find yourself inspired by her dedication to her service of impacting others lives and her personal practices.

Elena opens up about her personal struggles with addiction and the dramatic lifestyle changes she undertook to embrace a yogic lifestyle. Get ready to be inspired by her powerful testament to the transformative effects of mindfulness and yoga. She shares her journey of overcoming the need for external validation, her connection with essential oils, and how these elements have aided her to discover her most authentic self. Elena's courage and resilience promise to touch your life with potent insights.

In a world that's constantly vying for our attention, Elena teaches us the art of attention, and the role of intuition in decision-making. She helps us understand how to lead an artful life amidst overstimulation. Be prepared to hear about her latest offerings, her writing ventures, and her volunteer service work.

Please find Elena's transforming body of work and mentorship here.

Don't forget to check out the Stop Drinking, Start Living Portal of Empowerment to apply these concepts to your own life, today! Join here.

When you have infinite inspiration you don't need willpower.
Don't quit drinking this year, commit to living a new way, in alignment with your values and life intention.
5 weeks of live training, coaching, support and fun to kick off the new year for free!  Join HERE and get a head start on creating your life intention today.  

The show today was sponsored by Mary Wagstaff Coaching. We have been an ad free show for four years, and continue to do so we need to grow as a community. Please pay it forward by subscribing, rating and leaving a review here on apple podcasts!
Personally sharing this show on your feed or with a friend is how we can help even more women go Beyond Alcohol. Thank you for your support!


We are going to MEXICO!
Join us for a fully embodied, full awake, Women's retreat for the 2024 eclipse.
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision.
Learn more HERE about this trip of a life time and reach out with any questions.

Join the Free 40 Day Alcohol Transformation Challenge! 5 weeks of live training, coaching, fun and support! Join HERE.

Journey Back To Sobriety

33m · Published 22 Nov 08:00

What keeps us tolorating alcohol? We’re discussing the societal pressures and self-concept dynamics that keep us in the endless cycle of drinking.

You are wanting to reclaim a missing part of you. That missing part IS your sober self. The power of your feminine energies that will guide you on this transformative journey. We'll discuss how this energy can help you tap into your natural state of sobriety and embody the version of yourself you aspire to be. Our conversation reveals the reasons why we accept alcohol in our lives and how we can foster a healthier relationship with ourselves.

I'll share my personal 'aha' moment about changing my story about what alcohol means to me and how it shaped my journey back to sobriety.

As you charter this course to sobriety, remember to approach this journey with compassion and understanding. We'll explore how shifting your self-concept can be the key to unlocking a naturally sober self. Remember, seeking support and committing to a proven system can be game-changing. You'll learn about the unique features of my Stop Drinking and Start Living Portal Of Empowerment, a sanctuary for those seeking to a new approach to changing alcohol in their lives.

When you have infinite inspiration you don't need willpower.
Don't quit drinking this year, commit to living a new way, in alignment with your values and life intention.
5 weeks of live training, coaching, support and fun to kick off the new year for free!  Join HERE and get a head start on creating your life intention today.  

The show today was sponsored by Mary Wagstaff Coaching. We have been an ad free show for four years, and continue to do so we need to grow as a community. Please pay it forward by subscribing, rating and leaving a review here on apple podcasts!
Personally sharing this show on your feed or with a friend is how we can help even more women go Beyond Alcohol. Thank you for your support!


We are going to MEXICO!
Join us for a fully embodied, full awake, Women's retreat for the 2024 eclipse.
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision.
Learn more HERE about this trip of a life time and reach out with any questions.

Join the Free 40 Day Alcohol Transformation Challenge! 5 weeks of live training, coaching, fun and support! Join HERE.

249. Buffering With Gratitude

28m · Published 15 Nov 08:00

As the holiday season approaches, let's shatter some myths about quitting drinking and explore a new perspective on gratitude as a powerful self-care tool. We'll take a moment to appreciate the privileges we often take for granted - safety and health, and how they can foster a sense of gratitude. Together, we'll unlock the power of choice in crafting a future that aligns with our aspirations. Join me for a free on-demand training session that will help shift your perspective and inspire you to make new choices that lead to personal transformation and a fulfilling life. The path towards a better you begins here.

The core of self-awareness is practicing intentional presence that can turn resistance into opportunities for growth during life's transitions.

We'll get up close and personal on my Stop Drinking and Start Living Course, the Portal of Empowerment, a transformational journey designed to help you understand the root cause of your drinking and learn how to do what you think alcohol has been doing for you on your own.

It no longer has to take you years to quit drinking and endless attempts.
What you need is a proven strategy that works.
The Stop Drinking and Start Living Portal Of Empowerment is your ticket to freedom.
It's not just about quitting; it's about reclaiming your life, feeling proud and in control.
This is a special introductory rate, learn more and  enroll today here. 


We are going to MEXICO!
Join us for a fully embodied, full awake, Women's retreat for the 2024 eclipse.
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision.
Learn more HERE about this trip of a life time and reach out with any questions.

Thank you for following the show! Please rate, review and share! When you do, send me a screen shot and I will send you a guided audio meditation to calm any urge or emotion.

Get the free on demand training to end alcohol overwhelm

248. Your attention, please

26m · Published 08 Nov 08:00

Today, we uncover the truth about why people struggle to drink less and the underlying beliefs that drive our behaviors.
It's not just about sheer willpower; it's about understanding the intricate web of beliefs that lead us to reach for that drink.
We explore the concept that habits don't start with the behavior itself, but with the beliefs that shape our reactions.

Change starts with awareness and intentional shifts in our thought patterns.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Habits are rooted in beliefs: Habits don't begin with the behavior itself but are shaped by the belief systems we carry, both about alcohol and various aspects of our lives.
  2. Awareness is the first step: Shifting from unconscious to conscious awareness is essential. Understanding where you place your attention, especially in moments of emotional triggers, is crucial for change.
  3. Beliefs drive behavior: Our beliefs about alcohol and its role in our lives significantly influence our actions. Identifying and challenging these beliefs is essential to change our relationship with alcohol.
  4. Present moment awareness: By consciously anchoring ourselves in the present moment, we can interrupt the habitual thought patterns and reactions, paving the way for a new perspective.
  5. Shifting beliefs intentionally: Deliberately cultivating new beliefs that align with the life we want to lead is possible. By focusing on one thought at a time and coming into the present moment, we can create lasting change.

It no longer has to take you years to quit drinking and endless attempts.
What you need is a proven strategy that works.
The Stop Drinking and Start Living Portal Of Empowerment is your ticket to freedom.
It's not just about quitting; it's about reclaiming your life, feeling proud and in control.
This is a special introductory rate, learn more and  enroll today here. 

Ready to reconnect with your self and not need a vacation from your vacation? Join us in Mexico for a full embodied, awake Women's retreat!
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision. Learn more here and reach out with any questions.

Thank you for following the show! Please rate, review and share! When you do, send me a screen shot and I will send you a guided audio meditation to calm any urge or emotion.

Get the free on demand training to end alcohol overwhelm.

247. Redefining Fun

32m · Published 01 Nov 07:00

We dive into the topic of redefining fun beyond alcohol. Exploring the innate desires and pleasures within us, especially as women. We discussed the various aspects of life where we naturally seek enjoyment and how alcohol has become intertwined with those experiences. Here are the key takeaways:

  1. Associations with Pleasure: We examined how alcohol has become associated with activities we inherently enjoy, like socializing, music concerts, or downtime at home. These associations often override the natural pleasure of the activity itself, leading to a dependency on alcohol for enjoyment.
  2. Unpleasant Activities and Alcohol: On the flip side, we discussed how alcohol can mask the unpleasantness of certain activities, like venting frustrations at happy hours or engaging in gossip. While these activities may give temporary relief, they don't create lasting satisfaction and can compound negative feelings.
  3. Examining Your Thoughts: We emphasized the importance of examining your thoughts and perspectives around activities. By understanding your true feelings and motivations, you can distinguish between activities you genuinely enjoy and those you've associated with alcohol, allowing for conscious choices.
  4. Personal Responsibility: Taking personal responsibility for your choices and redefining your expectations is crucial. This involves understanding that your preferences, boundaries, and definitions of fun might have changed over time. It's about owning your decisions and finding authentic ways to enjoy life.
  5. Embracing New Experiences: Lastly, the episode encouraged listeners to embrace new experiences and redefine what fun means to them. By trying out activities without the influence of alcohol and approaching situations with curiosity, you can uncover genuine enjoyment and live a more fulfilling life.

Remember, it's about rediscovering your authentic self, connecting with your senses, and finding joy in the present moment without the need for external substances. So, go out there, redefine fun, and embrace the magic within you!

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All calls will be from 8-8:30 am PST
LEARN MORE & REGISTER HERE
The relay will be sent after to those registered. 

Ready to reconnect with your self and not need a vacation from your vacation? Join us in Mexico for a full embodied, awake Women's retreat!
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision. Learn more here and reach out with any questions.

Thank you for following the show! Please rate, review and share! When you do, send me a screen shot and I will send you a guided audio meditation to calm any urge or emotion.

Get the free on demand training to end alcohol overwhelm.

246. Self Care vs. Self Love

30m · Published 25 Oct 07:00

In this introspective podcast episode, I explore the deep layers of self-love, self-care, and self-awareness. Reflecting on my recent yoga experiences and encounters with insightful teachers, I explore the profound question from Poet Andrea Gibson: Is my attention on loving, or is it on who isn't loving me?

I discuss the societal pressures around beauty and aging, acknowledging the fine line between self-care practices and self-love. Drawing from personal experiences and lessons, I invite listeners to consider the transformative power of cultivating self-love as a foundation for all other aspects of life.

Key Takeaways:

  • Attention on Love: Reflect on whether your focus is on love, solutions, and self-compassion, or on who isn't loving you or the problems, allowing for mindfulness in the present moment.
  • Cultivating the Witness: Practice moving beyond thought, connecting with your essential self, the unflinching consciousness within you, fostering stability and self-awareness.
  • Embracing Joy: Challenge the ability to experience natural joy without relying on external substances or circumstances, recognizing it as a profound aspect of self-discovery.
  • Self-Care vs. Self-Love: Question the intention behind self-care practices, discerning if they stem from a place of self-love or societal pressures, emphasizing the importance of self-love as the foundation of well-being.
  • Starting with Self-Love: Prioritize self-love as a prerequisite for happiness and contentment, understanding that external changes or practices might enhance but not replace the core of self-acceptance and love.

I mention the episode of Elena Brower's podcast with Andrea. Please take a listen here.

Ready to reconnect with your self and not need a vacation from your vacation? Join us in Mexico for a full embodied, awake Women's retreat!
Being in a conscious community of like minded Women to support your vision. Learn more here and reach out with any questions.

Thank you for following the show! Please rate, review and share! When you do, send me a screen shot and I will send you a guided audio meditation to calm any urge or emotion.

Get the free on demand training to end alcohol overwhelm.

Stop Drinking and Start Living has 536 episodes in total of non- explicit content. Total playtime is 323:10:13. The language of the podcast is English. This podcast has been added on November 25th 2022. It might contain more episodes than the ones shown here. It was last updated on May 14th, 2024 02:41.

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