Without Regret the Podcast

In this powerful and inspiring podcast episode, we delve into the extraordinary life of Victoria, a woman who defied all odds to become an award-winning executive leader and #1 best-selling author. Victoria's early years were marked by unimaginable challenges, born to a drug-addicted teenage mother who subjected her to exceptionally abusive conditions.

Join us as we discover Victoria's incredible journey of triumph over adversity and trauma at such a young age. Her ability to build resilience in the face of such hardships has been the driving force behind her unstoppable and dynamic nature. As a corporate executive, board director, and entrepreneur, Victoria's accomplishments speak volumes about her indomitable spirit.

We explore Victoria's rise to becoming the #1 social seller/public brand worldwide for her F500 employers, according to LinkedIn, and how her life's experiences have shaped her into an in-demand professional public speaker. With sought-after expertise in motivation, Diversity Equity & Inclusion, women in leadership, culture, workforce dynamics, and more, Victoria's insights are a beacon of guidance for individuals and organizations seeking positive transformation.

Prepare to be moved as we delve into Victoria's journey from a tumultuous childhood to becoming a mentor and leader in the corporate world. Her story serves as a testament to the power of resilience and determination, reminding us all that we are born to lead, not to be led by our circumstances.

Join us for this captivating episode, where we explore the life of an extraordinary individual who turned her trauma into triumph and is now leaving an indelible mark on the world through her unstoppable spirit and dynamic leadership.

Dave Albin was born in 1954 at Queen of Angels Hospital in Hollywood, California to a single mother.
He was adopted by his Aunt & Uncle on his mother’s side at the age of 5. His adoptive parents told Dave they were not his parents at the age of 11.
Later that year both his adoptive parents started drinking.
This is where Dave’s life took a hard turn.
Dave tried alcohol at the age of 11. By the time he was 14 he was experimenting with hard drugs.
Grossly addicted to drugs and alcohol he joined AA some 20 years later in June 1988.
This is when Dave was introduced to the personal development industry. He attended a seminar with Tony Robbins in 1995 where he did his first firewalk.
Dave went on to work for Tony Robbins for just shy of 20 years as Tony’s Firewalk Captain.
Dave retired from the Anthony Robbins Companies in 2014 shortly after GOOGLE hired him to put on an event for them.
Firewalk Productions, LLC was born in 2014.
Dave has done gigs for NASA, Heineken, The Entrepreneurs Organization (EO), RE Max, Chick-fil-A, Pruvit, Google, NI, NC Chiropractic Association, Isagenix, Heineken, Boone, Blowing Rock, Ashe and the Caldwell County Chamber of Commerce, Wayne Dyer, T Harv Eker, CRISP Video, Y.M.C.A., NATE BAILEY, Tony Robbins and many others.
Dave currently lives in the Appalachian Mountains in Ashe County North Carolina.

Rachel Lavin is a Published author of The Doughnut Diaries, Professional Speaker and Body Love Educator, Certified Personal Trainer and a Certified Health Coach.
In 2000 Rachel began her career as an ACE certified group fitness instructor teaching a plethora of classes. In 2007 she was certified as an ACE Personal Trainer working at big box gyms in NYC and becoming an independent trainer in 2012.  Rachel wanted to take her passion for helping people to the next level and became an ACE certified Health Coach in 2018.
In 2020 Rachel wrote her first book "The Doughnut Diaries" about her own struggles with her weight and restrictive diets which lasted for over thirty years. As Rachel turned forty the expression I got sick and tired of being sick and tired hit home and she made a decision to take her power back and heal from decades of negative thinking and self sabotage.

Rachel began to do the work on my mind, body and soul. Writing her book was her way of sharing her message to women and men alike that you are not alone! Now using her book Rachel wants to help people who have had or are still experiencing negative body image. By using what she now refers to as her three pillars of fitness; Nourishment for both the mind and body, Movement & Rest.
Rachel's mission is to create a safe space for all women (and men!) to feel whole in their own body.

Sterling Walker with @sterl_fitness has been one of my most favorite guests so-far. He is so young, yet so wise! I wish I had his determination and attitude at 25! But I also am glad I didn't have to endure the things he did in order to have that attitude.

To hear him talk about his life in the beginning, it doesn't sound so bad. It sounds better than my childhood at first, at least he had a mom and a dad at home. At least he was involved in something (wrestling) in high school, and graduated. At least he got to go to college right out of high school. But we quickly realize, his childhood wasn't that great after all. I wonder how many people on the outside looking in thought he had a great home-life too. It is just another example of how you really never know what is going on behind closed doors.

Sterling says it was his late grandmother who gave him the strength he has today. She must have been one amazing and tough woman because he sure has a lot of strength.

After figuring out Wrestling really wasn't his passion, it was his father's, he realized fitness is his true passion. So he's set out on a mission to inspire others and help people with their fitness, but honestly, he can inspire people in so many other ways too. He inspired me to hit the gym the day we did the recording, and he hadn't even talked to me yet. And after completing the editing I'm now inspired to get up and meditate and set my intentions in the morning before I start my day. He didn't even say in so many words to do that, and I'm not sure if he even does that himself, but he did say something. He said you have to get up in the morning and take care of yourself. Its the whole concept of putting on your oxygen mask before helping others. And that is so important for us all to remember. We have to take care of ourselves before we can really do a good job taking care of others.

I titled this blogpost "If you fail, they fall" because it is these words that truly hit home with Sterling when he had to take in his younger brother and sister after child protective services removed them from their parent's home due to an abusive father. Wes Walker, Sterlings mentor, said these words to him and Sterling took them to heart and they have been his mantra ever since. Sterling really impressed me with how he took little nuggets from different people all through his life and really learned what they meant, and applied them to his life in his own, unique, way.

Check out Sterling's Instagram (@sterl_fitness) if you're ready for some "tell-it-like-it-is" advise, tough love and a lot of colorful language :)

***Trigger warning: This episode contains depictions of violence, rape and trauma and may not be suitable for all listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

This is Part 2 of a 2 part series in which Author and Public Speaker Amanda Blackwood tells her heroing story, beginning with her childhood, of being trafficked on three separate occasions; how she escaped all three times and ultimately took her life back after one of her traffickers posted pictures and videos of her on porn sites without her consent making her famous. She explains what human trafficking actually is (not what the media would have you believe) and clears up several myths surrounding trafficking as well as sharing how she was able to heal and become a successful author and public speaker. Amanda has become a Trauma Mentor and works tirelessly to help others in need and also hosts 2 podcasts: The Survivors (by Amanda Blackwood) and Growth from Darkness along with Hrisanthi Dokos.

***Trigger warning: This episode contains depictions of violence, rape and trauma and may not be suitable for all listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

This is Part 1 of a 2 part series in which Author and Public Speaker Amanda Blackwood tells her heroing story, beginning with her childhood, of being trafficked on three separate occasions; how she escaped all three times and ultimately took her life back after one of her traffickers posted pictures and videos of her on porn sites without her consent making her famous. She explains what human trafficking actually is (not what the media would have you believe) and clears up several myths surrounding trafficking as well as sharing how she was able to heal and become a successful author and public speaker. Amanda has become a Trauma Mentor and works tirelessly to help others in need and also hosts 2 podcasts: The Survivors (by Amanda Blackwood) and Growth from Darkness along with Hrisanthi Dokos.

In this episode, my niece Brenda explains her struggle with FND (Functional Neurological Disorder), the things that caused her FND including Rape, a narcisistic husband, self-doubt and a son who has autism. But most importantly, she talks about how she got out of her bad relationship, and how she copes with dayt-to-day life now with FND. Oh and April is National FND Awareness Month!

For over 35 years I have held a grudge against my half-sister who was given up for adoption by my mother. She found evidence to identify her birth mother and managed to find our mom when I was 12 years old. Having always known she existed I was very excited to meet her. After 2-years our mom invited her and her family to come live with us in Florida until they got on their feet. After 4 months of them living with us and putting a financial burden on our Mom, they moved back to Indiana. I was 14 at the time. They didn't leave on the best of terms and we didn't speak for 10 more years. I have never told my sister that I had hard feelings, I have just sat on them for over 35-years. She had no idea. This is the first time we have discussed it since it happened. This is the first time I've given her a chance to let me know her side of things - where I have gotten out of thinking about the whole situation from my 14-year-old point of view.

My hope for this podcast episode is to show how there are always two sides to every story. Family is important, whether raised together or not. A lot of familes can't get passed things in their past and some never make amends. Here is a real-life, real-time example of how a healthy conversation can have a big impact and take a huge weight off of all parties involved. Forgiveness is a wonderful thing!!!

The title says it all!

Most women have trouble knowing their worth in the work place. We don't negotiate salary well, we don't ask for what we want. Joy helps us all understand how we can be much better at this while explaining how she got to where she is today.