Life Made Simple with CarlaRae

This is our very first "3 Minute Thursday" episode of the Life Made Simple Podcast!

What do you have on your to-do list right now that you've been avoiding because it just makes you cringe? Any daunting awful chores that you keep putting off, but you KNOW they really need to get done? Maybe it's a pile of dirty laundry, a sink full of dirty dishes, or days worth of mail to sort through.

On today's brief episode, I introduce you to a simple solution that might help: a timer. Just a simple timer... maybe an old kitchen egg timer, a stop watch, or even just a simple app on your phone.

While it does seem really simple - and I'm sure you've heard of this technique before - setting a timer to tackle certain chores can help keep you focused, motivated and targeted on the individual task at hand.

I also mention a book written by Francesco Cirillo called the Pomodoro Technique. The book pretty much offers a method in which you take a series of 25 minute work sessions with 5 minute breaks. He calls those "pomodoros", which means tomato in Italian because the egg timer that he used in college was in the shape of a tomato.  After 4 pomodoros, you then take a longer 15-30 minute break.

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This is Part 2 to last week's episode, "Why Is Change So Hard?" If you haven't already, I encourage you to go back and listen it first. During that show we explore the reasons why it can be so hard to make good changes in our lives, even when we know that the change we want to make will help us to be happier people.  

Reaching goals that we want to accomplish, whether it be de-cluttering, weight loss, maybe a new career path - everything that we know we want or need to do in order to have a life that's fuller, happier, healthier -  they all take work and effort, and discipline... and if we think or know that the effort and work is going to be hard, we tend to default to not make the change, stay the way we are, stuck in the same old bad habits, because sometimes it just feels easier. Because change is sometimes scary and hard.

In that episode (#2), we also talked about questions to ask yourself to figure out if all the hard work to make a change for the good in your life is worth it or not. Yes, de-cluttering your house takes so much time and emotional energy, but living in a simple cleaned out space might be worth it. Eating healthier and making exercise a real priority takes a lot of self discipline and hard work. But being at a healthy weight and having more energy might just be worth it all. Going back to school to finally have a shot at your dream job, might be tedious, but it could be sooo rewarding. But you must first DECIDE to make the changes needed to move in the right direction. You must DECIDED that it's worth it.

Now once you've come to the realization that you WANT to change. That you SHOULD change. Well then, now what?!?

And that's what today's episode is all about. If you've decided to make a change in your life, if you decide to take the first step that you know you need to make to get to where you want to be, how do you stay motivated to continue making step after step after step to push through the hard times and enormous effort it might take? How do you stay motivated?

Key Points:

• You have the choice to change.
• You are in more control of your future than you realize.
• You are capable.
• Make a game plan and honor it.
• Be realistic with the process.
• Take baby steps.
• Don't look back once you start to move forward.
• Embrace the discomfort that comes with change.
• Develop good discipline.
• Strengthen your willpower muscle.
• Focus on the end result.
• Remind yourself that it will be worth it.
• Be kind to yourself.
• Reach out for help and support from loved ones, experts, and coaches.

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As a Professional Home Organizer and lifestyle coach, it is not only my job, but it is my passion to help people make changes in their lives and homes to become happier and healthier. I've always considered myself to be an advocate for change. But, unfortunately, change isn't easy - for any of us - even if it's for the good.

In this episode of Life Made Simple - Episode#2 I plan on taking a look at exactly WHY it is so hard to make good changes in our lives.

All of us in our lives have something that we wish would be different... something that we wish would be better.  We all have bad habits that we wish we could change. It could be something regarding family, like maybe you want to be more patient as a parent or be a better spouse. Or maybe you want to make a change in your home, like get it more organized, keep a  cleared off kitchen counter, or keep up with your laundry. Maybe the change you want has something to do with your career. Or even your finances. Maybe you want to stop wasting money and start saving for a down payment. Or maybe the change you want has to do with your health; you want to eat better, exercise more, maybe lose a few pounds.  

Whatever it is, we all have something in our life that isn't as good as we had hoped for or expected, something that we want to change for the good.

If you had the opportunity to make something better in your life, why wouldn't you take it? If you had the control to improve your life in any way, why wouldn't you take the necessary steps to do so?

Why? Well, because CHANGE IS HARD. But why is it so hard to make changes in our lives if it helps us to be happier or healthier or more successful?

It's because of this simple truth: in order for a person to change, the pain and discomfort of their current situation needs to surpass the perceived discomfort of making the change.

Tune in to the full episode to hear exactly what this means and how it applies to you.

We also go over the 7 questions you need to ask yourself that can guide you to the path of making a lasting change in your life.

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Since episode #0 was an introduction to who I am and what I do, this quick and brief episode is meant to give you an introduction to the Life Made Simple Podcast, what it's all about, and what to expect in future episodes.

While simplicity is the Life Made Simple Podcast's theme, the categories that we're going to talk about are going to be all areas of life:

• Home (de-cluttering all rooms of your house, including paper piles)
• Time (managing all your to-dos and how to schedule them)
• Health (diet, exercise, and even weight-loss goals)
• Relationships (marriage, parenting, friendships)
• Mind (your mood, attitudes, outlooks, values, negative vs. positive thinking and so on).

The goal of this podcast is to explore the idea of finding simplicity in all areas of our life.  During future episodes, we'll be talking about and learning together how to let go of what's holding us back from being who we want to be and focus on only the things that bring us true happiness.

You can expect to hear a brand new episode every Monday morning. Those episodes will cover certain topics such as how to un-clutter your house, how to build better will power, what to do about people in your life that bring you stress, the best way to manage your to-do list, how to schedule exercise into your life.  These are just a few examples of topics that we'll be covering.

Every once in awhile, the Monday morning episode will be called "CarlaRae Confesses". During those episodes I'll be confessing and talking about certain areas of my own life that I need extra help in... areas of my life that I need to simplify.

Every once in awhile we'll be having a special "Ask CarlaRae" episode. During those episodes I'll be answering questions that you, my listeners have for me. If you ever have a topic that you want me to cover, or a problem that you want my help solving, or if you just need some ideas to help simplify certain areas of your life, feel free to submit your questions and comments on my website.

Just go to CarlaRaeArneson.com/askcarlarae. Or you can email me directly to [email protected]

Down the line, we're also planning to have a few guest speakers and interviews for our Monday morning episodes. Which I'm really excited about! So stay tuned for those.

In addition to the Monday morning episode that we release, the Life Made Simple Podcast will also be featuring a "3-Minute Thursday" episode. Every Thursday morning I will give you a quick and brief dose of inspiration and motivation to keep you going through the end of your week.

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Welcome to the very first podcast episode of Life Made Simple!

My name is CarlaRae Arneson, and I want to give a huge thank you to everyone who has been encouraging me and pushing me to get this podcast up and going and off the ground! It's definitely been a work in progress and I'm so excited that it's finally happening.

This particular episode is where you get to hear all about me, what I do, and why I'm now the host of this podcast show, Life Made Simple.

I'm originally from Alameda, California down in the San Francisco Bay Area. I now live in beautiful Seattle, Washington with my amazing husband Eric, our little son, Levi, and our new rescued puppy, Bode. You'll definitely hear a lot more about my family and the crazy - but fun - life that we lead in future episodes.

I've been a professional home organizer and time management coach for almost 15 years with my Home Management Consulting business in Seattle, called Loose Ends.

Throughout the years of helping families cut back on chaos and clear the clutter from their homes, I can definitely say that I have seen it all... nothing surprises me anymore! I've seen some pretty crazy things and I've worked with some very interesting and amazing people. I've seen all extremes and everything in between...

• Packrats and hoarders who feel like they're drowning and don't know where to begin to make a change.
• Couples who want to downsize and somehow let go of half their stuff to move into a smaller home.
• Families who actually have LESS stuff than I do and just need a few organizing ideas to simplify their home.
• Individuals who have way too many to-dos and need help with time management.

While helping so many different people, I learned that everyone has a different story, everyone has a different situation with different struggles, and everyone needs help in different ways.

But no matter what the story, I have learned working with all my clients over the years this one definitive truth: If you want to get organized, you have to simplify your life.

Do you want to feel less overwhelmed? Well, then you have to simplify your life.

Do you want to feel more happy and at peace? You have to simplify your life.

Do you want to actually enjoy being in your home? Do you want to feel like you have more time to do what you love and with the people that you love? Then you have to simplify your life.

But what does that mean? And where do you start? How do you do that?

And that's why I wanted to start this podcast. After 15 years of helping people one on one, face to face, simplify the craziness in their lives, I decided it's finally time to help even more people on a much bigger scale. So, for all my clients, colleagues, and friends, and family members who have been encouraging me to do this, thank you... it's finally happening!  

Keep in mind, this podcast show is going to go way beyond just organizing your house... we're going to tackle every aspect of your life... not just your home (although, we will talk a lot about that), but also your relationships, your health, your time, your to-do list, and even your emotional well-being.

And ultimately, we will talk about how to let go of everything that might be holding you back in life and how to focus on what your real priorities are.

I want this podcast show to help motivate and inspire you to push forward, to develop new habits and disciplines that will help you maintain a simplified life. Because I'm not going to lie to you... it's not always easy. But it's worth it.

I'm here to say, you're not alone. I don't just empathize with you, I can relate to you. Together, we can figure out how to simplify our lives, get rid of what doesn't matter, and focus on what does. Together, we can push forward, we can get motivated, and stay inspired. Together, we can find the freedom of simplicity and pursue the life that we're we were meant to live.

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